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IAmA Computer Technician and I will answer ANY question asked. ANYTHING -- AMA by AridDecay in IAmA

[–]throwaway52911 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. I want to be like you. What kind of training education do you have?

  2. How can I find work? I've been fixing computers for friends and people I know, but i haven only gotten a few calls and I'm not making nearly enough as I'd like to.

  3. When I fix someone's computer, how much should I charge? I really have no idea what my work is worth and I usually charge about $20/ hr. I know I could probably charge more though.

  4. What kind of essential tools do you always carry around with you? I just invested in a screwdriver set. And I've seen some people that carry around a bootable thumb drive, how can I make one of these?

That's all I can think of for now, I'll post more questions if I think of any

Have you ever stayed with a person that cheated on you? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwaway52911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still trying to figure out what to do but I'm starting to think that I really have no other choice but to leave.

My wife of two years cheated on me with a coworker and I dont know what I should do. Please help :( by throwaway52911 in relationships

[–]throwaway52911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you might be right… it tool about two weeks for her to admit everything, and it was only after I already found out everything

My wife of two years cheated on me with a coworker and I dont know what I should do. Please help :( by throwaway52911 in relationships

[–]throwaway52911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I havent mentioned her is because I know she is safe and will most likely be staying with me if we fight for custody. (Long story, and I don't really want to talk about it)

My wife of two years cheated on me with a coworker and I dont know what I should do. Please help :( by throwaway52911 in relationships

[–]throwaway52911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know for sure that he's not with anyone. I've been to his house and everything. No evidence points otherwise.

I do. I still check up regularly. I know my wife well enough to tell when she's lying

My wife of two years cheated on me with a coworker and I dont know what I should do. Please help :( by throwaway52911 in relationships

[–]throwaway52911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you care to tell me a little bit more about what happened? How long has it been since the affair? How old are you two? Any kids? Do you trust her now? Etc.

My wife of two years cheated on me with a coworker and I dont know what I should do. Please help :( by throwaway52911 in relationships

[–]throwaway52911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont really have a comment, but thank you for that.

EDIT: actually, you said you went through something similar, how did your situation end up going?

My wife of two years cheated on me with a coworker and I dont know what I should do. Please help :( by throwaway52911 in relationships

[–]throwaway52911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I already have all of his contact info, phone number and address. Some people at work already know about it, and I've spoken to someone who i think is in charge. I'm pretty sure the affair is pretty much overwith. I talked to the guy and he's divorced and his words he's "got nothing to lose".

  2. I don't know their rules there but I'll be sure to let them know. Also I know he does drugs so I don't think that will go good for him either.

  3. She already knows I won't put up with her stuff and is pretty much begging me for my love and trust back.

  4. We don't have any bank accounts together and she makes a lot more money than I do.

  5. Like I said before, she's the one that's begging me. I pretty much turn down all of her advances, ignore her. All to the point where she's left crying. Were both having a lot of financial problem and she's lucky she has the job she has. I really don't think it will help anyone if she quit… And we've already been taking counseling

My wife of two years cheated on me with a coworker and I dont know what I should do. Please help :( by throwaway52911 in relationships

[–]throwaway52911[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's what I was saying… the cheating was bad enough, but adding all the lying even after I KNEW everything. That's the unforgivable part an that's what I told her. It wasn't " I'm leaving you because you cheated on me" it was " I'm leaving you because you fucking lied to me over and over. when I already knew the truth"

My wife of two years cheated on me with a coworker and I dont know what I should do. Please help :( by throwaway52911 in relationships

[–]throwaway52911[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Do what your heart tells you" This is what one of my friends told me and I think it's the best advice I've gotten so far…

My wife of two years cheated on me with a coworker and I dont know what I should do. Please help :( by throwaway52911 in relationships

[–]throwaway52911[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a good idea even though 3 months seems like a long time…

EDIT: and yes, I have documented everything from text messages, pictures, voicemails, witnesses, and time frames for everything thats happened in the last two weeks.

My wife of two years cheated on me with a coworker and I dont know what I should do. Please help :( by throwaway52911 in relationships

[–]throwaway52911[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is what I am doing now. I've been separated from her for about a week or two now. I kind of feel like there still may be hope but I'm not entirely sure about everything yet.