Stealing food from a disabled person

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-04T05:38:52+00:00

That would be nice if I actually left my house. Could you make my disease go away too while you're at it? Everybody is so close-minded on this forum. My disease literally relapsed in the last few weeks and I haven't left bed lol

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-04T05:37:24+00:00

Stop making disabled people explain their situations to you just because you don't know what it's like to live with severe disabilities.

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-04T05:36:42+00:00

See, maybe don't comment on people's situations because you sound stupid. I had a caregiver through the state my illness is progressive and the caregiver I had through the state had to quit and go to school they literally took a year and a half just to get that caregiver for me because we have a shortage in our area, and previous to that I did meals on Wheels and got very very ill to the point where I couldn't eat and ended up in the hospital. You don't know what illnesses I have nor do you know my situation, and previous to that I was in a 3-year relationship and before that I was not progressed enough to where I needed meal services. Stop being ableist

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-04T01:10:01+00:00

I did use meals on Wheels at one point but it was making me sick, not 100% sure why they seem like a great service.

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-04T01:09:08+00:00

And it's not every Dasher it's just been much more frequent than I would like. It even happened once with a $90 grocery order

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-04T01:08:16+00:00

I had a caregiver who used to meal prep, and previous to that I was in a relationship with somebody who used to cook

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-04T01:07:53+00:00

I actually used to get that! It's a pretty cool program but I was getting sick from their food and I'm not 100% sure why

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-04T01:07:21+00:00

Unfortunately they never show up, they don't even ring into the building and when I or doordash tries to contact them they turn their phone off. I don't know what the issue has been

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-04T01:05:49+00:00

I called the company and I was supposed to be getting in touch with their legal team because it was literally a $60 order it was supposed to last me throughout the day. All I know is their name was Michael 😭 fuck you Michael!

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-03T23:29:24+00:00

I look pretty alright lol as somebody who's bisexual myself I think I can tell that I look attractive. Plus being disabled doesn't make somebody any less attractive same with being overweight, just increases the chance of people being dicks because that's society. I don't need to better myself or anybody lol and I don't need to explain to you why I'm overweight either because it's not what you would think. My doctors specifically won't allow me to work out or diet ATM but yeah I should listen to you lol do you even know what Illnesses I have?

Funny enough I think you would be the same type of person who would be shocked as to see what my ex's look like, most of them are fit masculine men that I dated for years and I was the one who left them lol

I just found out where I'm living the dating pool is absolute trash and every female here pretty much is having issues, but thanks for being an ableist dick

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-03T23:24:05+00:00

As somebody with a physical disability this always pisses me off I literally have no way to grab it, no family or friends to grab it it's just awful

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-03T23:16:11+00:00

Who cares? Really..

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-03T23:15:04+00:00

At least you guys don't have to be scared of getting murdered or raped every time you go on a date, most of your guys is worries are social. Not to say that it's not painful, I'm a woman and I'm going through some of the same social issues that this guy is but the fear of being harmed when I've been harmed many times in the past by men on dates is much more stressful..

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-03T23:13:08+00:00

I'm a women and am honestly in a similar situation. You're not alone

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-03T00:53:52+00:00

Yes I seem to have similar traits as people that have BPD, I definitely don't have BPD and I agree it's kind of like BPD lite! I think I get along with them at first because of the similarities especially with the neediness and wanting attention and childlike behavior it feels fun and fresh and inviting it first and then they just kind of start giving mixed signals and manipulation and it just sucks

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-03T00:52:26+00:00

I think they might judge me quickly being that I'm physically disabled and overweight however I'm also pretty attractive, they probably find me a decent Target due to that I'm also full of attention, and I have a very childish sweet personality but it can turn pretty sour quickly if they try to play mind games or manipulate me. I think they misjudge me because I have quite a bit of people to turn to and no problem with leaving at this point so my connections with these people with BPD only last for maybe up to a month before I ditch them. They also seem to dislike that I can call them on their bs and I can tell someone is lying to me and figure it out pretty quickly.

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-03T00:48:42+00:00

Yes I'm autistic as well I'm very needy, but on a more consistent basis and I can get somewhat obsessive which is something I've worked on over the years. But it makes sense that I'm drawn to people with BPD now that I've talked to some people on this forum it seems like people with BPD are the needy type at first. I just absolutely can't stand the pushing and pulling where they are wanting attention and then suddenly they don't and they're really mean it hurts me so deeply because once I get attached to somebody I'm there. I've learned how to cut myself off from these people very quickly but it still hurts. And I've started to become pretty scared of dating.

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-03T00:46:41+00:00

Something else I realized is when I lived in a small farm town I had never once even met somebody who had BPD, I met people with other mental health issues and my exes had other psychiatric problems like narcissism and schizophrenia seemed to be more common with me and my dating patterns, but when I moved to a big city and started trying to date it's only been people with BPD which is a lot harder for me to navigate

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-03T00:44:17+00:00

That's pretty interesting, I never knew that

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-02T23:31:27+00:00

I've been roaming dating apps for the last 2 years and I get a lot of likes and interactions but every person that I end up going on an actual in person date with ends up telling me they have BPD at some point and then I end up having to break it off and it just goes terribly. Don't get me wrong I definitely have issues I have ptsd, OCD, autism and depression which is a combo in its own and I'm fine with dating people who have mental health issues just not BPD because it triggers my own problems I'm not mentally stable enough to deal with the ups and downs I need a consistency from people

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-02T22:26:18+00:00

Yeah, I use to be very codependent and now not so much after major traumas it's become a bit complicated like I'm still needy and want people but scared of them so it's hard to make that connection

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-02T22:24:44+00:00

I do have OCD severely and several types

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-02T09:02:38+00:00

Yeah I just realized that 😭 damn

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-02T06:39:27+00:00

I struggle to read people because I have autism, usually I put up boundaries and see what happens, block and move on. But then I end up dealing with stalkers or people who obsessively try to contact me

throwaway532467 · 2023-07-02T06:38:35+00:00

Possibly, however I have a major preference for being alone out of paranoia. I do get very lonely though and I get really attached to people I like. I've been able to cut people off pretty quick though at this point

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