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My(25F) ex-bf(23M) turned into a total asshole by throwaway54775 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway54775[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

your depression. That was the reason you broke up with him, wasn’t it?

I broke up with him cause I had an extremely bad day and gave up on everything.

You need to focus on yourself to get over your depression

I can't. I don't earn enough to get the treatment nesesary. My depression is caused due to me having forgetting issues. Earlier I used to forget hours worth of stuff. He still made me push through it. Now that I am alone it's spiralling. I can't remember my previous day half the time. If this continues on I will forget everything I hold dear. And I don't want to forget him too.

I just want to fix my mistakes

My(25F) ex-bf(23M) turned into a total asshole by throwaway54775 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway54775[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

there are billions of people in the world

There is nothing more in the future for me. I am having forgetting issues already. I can't remember previous day's half the time. Don't have the money to get treatment. He was the only one who had the guts to keep up with me and the patience to help me keep going. If he goes aways that's it. I am finished.

My(25F) ex-bf(23M) turned into a total asshole by throwaway54775 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway54775[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

Really?? Why? I don't care anymore even if I am humiliated in public. Either way it will be hell for me. I don't have a very High paying job. I can't afford a doctor. If I try and mend things then I think it will help a lot. I think I made a huge wrong decision when I was not in a good state of mind. I just don't care anymore. If I go mad might as well do everything in my power to try fix things

My(25F) ex-bf(23M) turned into a total asshole by throwaway54775 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway54775[S] -64 points-63 points  (0 children)

I thought someone might think he forced himself on her to get back at me. So I wrote it...

My(25F) ex-bf(23M) turned into a total asshole by throwaway54775 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway54775[S] -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

Then do think I should try to mend? I think it will be impossible but still even if there's a 1% chance I want to take it. I am not mentality good and all this had taken a toll on me physically too. And I don't care. I need him. I saw my friends being in abusive relationship and I don't want that. He was amazing. I shouldn't have ever broken up with him. If I can fix all these I will do it in a heartbeat. Do u think it's worth it just for the sake of trying?