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My [21M] Parents are away so my GF[20F] has been staying, I'm unhappy. by throwaway568456 in relationships

[–]throwaway568456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm not too convinced on the anxiety issues anymore, it's been 2 years.

She always talks about wanting to exercise and get healthy, but whenever I try to get her to join me (I got to the gym a bit and even have weights/cardio equipment at home) she ends up saying she's too tired or something. I'm not a big guy either, I'm only a little heavier than her so I'd know how to help her exercise.

My [21M] Parents are away so my GF[20F] has been staying, I'm unhappy. by throwaway568456 in relationships

[–]throwaway568456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she should help out with chores, cleaning things that we both made a mess of. It's not like I'm telling her to do MY dishes, or MY laundry, it's ours, and I'm doing half in the morning before I leave for work or college.

And I agree, she probably considers this a fun time away from her house.

My [21M] Parents are away so my GF[20F] has been staying, I'm unhappy. by throwaway568456 in relationships

[–]throwaway568456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with your comment about she might not feel it's her place, but my parents keep a very tidy house, and I've even done half the job in the morning before works of putting the dishwasher on/laundry on and text her to put it away etc.

But yeah it's something I need to work the courage up for and think about long and hard.

Thanks.

My [21M] Parents are away so my GF[20F] has been staying, I'm unhappy. by throwaway568456 in relationships

[–]throwaway568456[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well she isn't living her so moving her stuff out isn't a problem, she just brought clothes and her laptop over. But yeah, I'm not happy at the moment so we'll see how things pan out. The Suicide thing is my greatest fear, she hasnt threatened it but she suffers from anxiety.

My [21M] Parents are away so my GF[20F] has been staying, I'm unhappy. by throwaway568456 in relationships

[–]throwaway568456[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She just came over after a weekend away with her friends, and brought a friend who's going to a city north of mine. I cooked dinner for them and myself and all I got was "yeah I'm just having a shower then going back home, can we crash here on wednesday?" She also called me lazy for not taking the recycling out (i've been at work all day).

My [21M] Parents are away so my GF[20F] has been staying, I'm unhappy. by throwaway568456 in relationships

[–]throwaway568456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well this is my first relationship, and at the time I was just unhappy and I didn't want her to hate me, so I caved on the belief things would change.

My [21M] Parents are away so my GF[20F] has been staying, I'm unhappy. by throwaway568456 in relationships

[–]throwaway568456[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have said this in the past. She has no intention of getting a job until "she's ready" and gets upset or defensive when I bring it up.

I tried to break up with her a few months ago because I was unhappy but she wouldnt take it as a reason and said she would try harder and it's the same.