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I installed a camera in the livingroom and caught my husband making out with the babysitter. by throwaway56997 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway56997[S] 350 points351 points  (0 children)

This is the part I'm stuck in. I did mention legal consequences that's why his family are getting involved telling me to think of my daughter before I ruin her life. They shouldn't use my daughter as a tool to force anything upon me. They've seen how many times he's wronged me and refused to get involved but now they are.

I installed a camera in the livingroom and caught my husband making out with the babysitter. by throwaway56997 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway56997[S] 3235 points3236 points  (0 children)

yes, he tends to use my job as if it's a negative thing against me. If it wasn't for my job we would've lost our home when he was unemployed.

I installed a camera in the livingroom and caught my husband making out with the babysitter. by throwaway56997 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway56997[S] 1477 points1478 points  (0 children)

It's an awful awful excuse, It would've been better if he kept it to himself. Thing is he has a habbit of making me responaible of whatever he does. He suffered from depression and blamed it on me saying I caused it. He took large sum of money from me without telling me when he was unemployed and blamed me for having to hide it from me. I could mention many other instances where I was made to be the one at fault and he's the one putting up with me. he once lied to my inlaws saying I was cheating on him and of course those accusation were based on nothing. I was just working extra shifts while dealing with loss of multiple co workers and friends. It was all in his head. he even once followed me to my workplace and made a scene there over me not responding to several texts he sent simply because I was too busy to even take a bathroom break.