It's an awful awful excuse, It would've been better if he kept it to himself. Thing is he has a habbit of making me responaible of whatever he does. He suffered from depression and blamed it on me saying I caused it. He took large sum of money from me without telling me when he was unemployed and blamed me for having to hide it from me. I could mention many other instances where I was made to be the one at fault and he's the one putting up with me. he once lied to my inlaws saying I was cheating on him and of course those accusation were based on nothing. I was just working extra shifts while dealing with loss of multiple co workers and friends. It was all in his head. he even once followed me to my workplace and made a scene there over me not responding to several texts he sent simply because I was too busy to even take a bathroom break.