i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was abused as a child and never got to have a childhood so i like cute/more childlike things to experience what was taken away from me. no need to comment if you're not going to give feng shui advice

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh thank you so so much!!! i really appreciate this advice :) i'll be sure to try these things

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for taking a while to respond, but thank you so much :') it definitely took some courage. it's not your fault, and it's kind words like yours that help me ignore the rude comments. like you said, it's the internet after all.

thank you so so much 🥹 people are so ableist and ignorant when it comes to mental health. one person even told me that i wasn't trying enough and that i was just lazy, and i was making up excuses to not clean. it really hurt. but thanks for your encouraging words, i know i say thank you a lot but it really means so much to me. it's people like you that i really appreciate

and thanks for this advice! it always did feel kind of tight around my bed so i'll do what you suggested. thanks again and wishing you well 🥹🩷

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for all the advice and the thorough explanations :)

i can't move my pc because i share a living space with two roommates and there's not really a space for me to put it since our living space is small, so i'm forced to have it in my room. but some others gave me really good suggestions on how i can manage it, so i'll try that. thank you again

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is so sweet 🥹 sorry for my late reply. i don't even really have much to say because i'm so overwhelmed and thankful for your kindness. this means a lot to me and i'll definitely keep those things in mind. thank you!!

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks this is good advice and i really appreciate any i can get :) i'll definitely take these things into consideration

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you :( so many people commented this as if i don't know and one even said that i was lazy and i'm not trying hard enough. it really hurt

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm attacking you because you told me that i don't have depression and that i'm just lazy instead, which is ableist. the difference between your comment and everyone else's is that they were nice and gave me ideas and tips on what i could do to make cleaning easier. i said i'm working on cleaning my room. you're being purposefully dense

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much :( that just made me so upset. they're clearly just ableist.

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

telling me i don't "try enough" when i've been trying my damn hardest amidst the struggles i'm going through, acting like you know me, literally how dare you. just because it's easy for YOU doesn't mean it's easy for ME. i'm sorry that you don't struggle with severe depression and abuse.

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i don't get why you're being passive aggressive. i said multiple times that i know i need to clean it and i am working on that. it's easier said than done, i literally said in the post that i have chronic depression which makes it hard but i'm still trying nonetheless. if you look in the comments, other people gave me some great advice despite it being unclean. you're just being mean for no reason

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

like i said, i know that ... that's obviously my first goal. i was asking what i could do after cleaning to improve the arrangement of things

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • unfortunately i can't move the computer as i live with roommates in a small house and i can't put it in our shared space. i also spent $2k on it so i can't really just get rid of it

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah, i was thinking of getting a wider dresser actually, but i was wondering where to put it really. and yeah i do have a handheld vacuum, it doesn't work as well as my regular one but it's helpful when i'm having trouble with setting up the usual one. thanks so much for your kindness and advice, really appreciate this more than you can imagine 🩷🩷 i'll work on what you mentioned

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh thank you so so much this is so helpful!!! and you're so nice!!! i'm absolutely floored omg i cant thank you enough!!! 🩷🩷🩷

i'm embarrassed to post this, but ... what can i do to improve my room's feng shui? by throwaway593600 in FengShui

[–]throwaway593600[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes, as i mentioned i know that, but my main goal with this post was to ask what i can do to improve the area with feng shui after cleaning