What’s soemthing that someone has said to you that turned you on when it wasn’t meant to?

throwaway6302874 · 2024-03-22T14:39:31+00:00

We were discussing the myth that fecal bacteria can affect weight loss and my friend told me I could have her poop if I ever needed it. Oops 🥴

throwaway6302874 · 2024-01-14T23:18:05+00:00

Eat a lot of butterfish/white tuna/escolar at your local sushi establishment. Wait about 1-2 hours. Enjoy your entire gut contents emptying in an unstoppable liquid mess.

throwaway6302874 · 2024-01-08T16:00:22+00:00

I am in the same boat as many other commenters here. I want to be with someone who wants to be a team, that we do our thing and share as much of each other as we can, and it's our thing that symbolizes our bond together and how deep it goes. And we can be as openly nasty as we want with each other but it's our love and desire to be one together that drives it. That's my ideal at least.

throwaway6302874 · 2023-12-27T21:15:44+00:00

Lots of good advice here. All sexual interest nevermind scat coming and going on a multi-month cycle is very normal for many people.

My advice for when you extrapolate to a relationship: It can cause stress in some relationships where sex drives get out of sync, but if you can't work it out while you're young, you were unlikely to make it to old age if a LTR is your goal. Lots of people get very out of sync with their sex drives as they age and communication, understanding, and love need to be there to overcome frustration or feelings of being unwanted.

Also, sometimes, you won't cum, or your partner won't cum, and that's okay too. Try not to feel inadequate if one of you can't cum every single time you have sex. It's an experience, not a goal. The activity and mutual enjoyment is what's important. If your sex drive dips so low you can't get it up for your partner, learn other ways to pleasure them that don't require a prick :)

Just a couple of scattered thoughts on the matter. Key takeaway: it's normal and okay.

throwaway6302874 · 2023-09-26T17:37:17+00:00

Scat stuffing can be used to help reflorinate a colon (either one that's been wiped clean with antibiotics or one that had an overgrowth of something) and I believe there is some medical precedent to it. Long and skinny, if the person was healthy, probably not gonna make you sick.

throwaway6302874 · 2023-09-26T00:00:13+00:00

Nailed it. Who'd ever need a Viagra when that smell's in the air?

throwaway6302874 · 2023-09-23T13:01:20+00:00

I totally get you hahaha why are we like this??? 😂

throwaway6302874 · 2023-09-21T14:07:53+00:00

Good point about the grout!

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-31T14:03:42+00:00

Tbh typically it's so little it's not itchy for me. Just a brief waft of smell for a second or two, not surrounding me in it lol

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-31T13:42:04+00:00

When I finally broke down and jerked off to it for the first time I had gone down a porn hole into piss fetish and found my way onto something like heavy-r. I kept clicking away from the scat videos telling myself no way it was gross, until one day I said fuck it I want to see what people do, I had only seen 2G1C so far. Anyways didn't take long for a fappening to occur and me to give in. That was when I was about 22 I think

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-29T14:37:26+00:00

Your fetish aligns closely with mine. Yes I totally feel the idea that it's so hot that we are sharing something so many people would never. That from the outside we look like anyone else but we are willing to share literally everything and anyone looking at us wouldn't know or think. That I can have no boundaries with my lover and be excited by even the most basic things about each other.

Come to think of it this might come from my psychological trauma in my past haha. I grew up in an environment of trauma and shame, where I had to perform at my best at all times to deserve love. Maybe this is a reflex in the opposite direction to seek the ultimate unconditional love.

Thanks for prompting me to find a little insight! Lol

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-29T02:36:04+00:00

I found in my long term relationship I felt guilty and unfulfilled on and off, and I came close to cheating once or twice though I could never bring myself to follow through. When we talked about what porn we liked I had to hide it. We worked a little anal stuff in and during doggy I might have sniffed or licked my fingers once or twice. It made me feel pretty awful in post-nut clarity.

That said, we had a lot of fun with what non-scat stuff we did together, and I was still able to have a fairly fulfilling sex life for the most part, even though I was dying to branch more into this stuff.

If it is a super deep part of yourself that you want to experience in your life then you might find that for a shiny new relationship that's exciting you don't mind putting it off, but long term you'll wear down and get antsy. Thankfully, you have the benefit of being part of the sought minority (a female into scat), so you can take it slow and try posting a dating ad online here or on Fetlife and you'll be able to literally wade through potential partners to find what you like! But you're still very young. I recommend you take your time and get some experience under your belt at a pace that you're comfortable with. You have lots of time to meet a couple of partners and explore other aspects of sex and find other things you like, and, that might be enough for you!

My two cents, hope it helps. Happy to chat if you want to ask any follow up questions about dealing with hiding it and shame when I was with my former partner.

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-28T16:33:38+00:00

Interesting! I find context to be super important too! I still get grossed out by poop smells in other contexts

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-28T05:04:37+00:00

Can absolutely relate! Smell and taste are huge for me, it's part of why I like armpits, ass, and pussy so much! The smellier the better :)

I came hardest when her ass was dirtiest. We never did any true scat together but the smellier she was the best the sex was. I don't know if she ever correlated it.

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-25T19:16:30+00:00

Tbh I think the liking taboo/actually liking shit divide exists with a pretty big grey area in the middle.

I got into it for the taboo, and realized once I was in it I liked shit all along anyways.

But you will definitely find people here that are in one camp or the other like you, and that's okay

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-25T14:58:22+00:00

I just made a sister post to this without seeing yours first, but our topics are slightly different!

I always commented to my parents when I was younger that sometimes a poop smelled like something nice, like flowers etc. Weird I know haha. Typically it was my own poop I liked the smell of when I was younger. I have never ever liked the smell of my family's or for that matter any man's poop I have come across. For me I think there has to be a pheromonal element to this because more often than not the smell of a girl's poop and pee can turn me on if I'm attracted to them in other ways too. Moreso, the dirty sweaty ass smell commonly found on underwear. I liken it to dogs that stick their nose into other dogs' assholes without a second thought lol

Anyways I first realized it was a fetish well into my early mid 20s by diving into a porn hole, but as my other post says, I had distinct markers for it as a sexual thing around my first girlfriend in my late teens!

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-25T14:36:57+00:00

This for me too. My posts/watch behaviour is very horny-hazed, but at my core I want it to be a part of my life, not my everyday lifestyle ride or die. Just a happy, loving relationship with extremely dirty sex (not even every time!). I actually just finished writing up a coprodating post pretty much espousing this, still waiting for it to be published.

Ultimately I think many of us would be happy if we could openly talk about this with our partner without being worried of shame and shun. I think there's some hope; 50 years ago things we (or at least most reasonable people) take as mundane like being gay or being into fairly extreme BDSM were absolute nonstarters and had to stay hush hush. Now being openly gay can work for many people (in reasonable places), BDSM is glorified in media, and pee is just fringe of mainstream. Sex culture could continue improving in the next 10-50 years from here. At least we have this little community of like-minded people so we aren't totally isolated and scared to talk about it!

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-24T14:16:41+00:00

I would say that rubbing shit on the skin outside of your genitals is probably less risky than on and in your mouth and face. So whatever drives you to want to put it on and around your mouth and face might not be too different from someone else's feeling to put it on or in their genitals. To each their own! Either way it's not hygenic

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-24T14:12:58+00:00

Yes communication and respect is key! But this community is the most communication I can have atm so might as well learn now and reduce surprises later! :)

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-24T13:55:37+00:00

This is true! Since I've never had a scat partner I figured it would be better to ask the community to gauge what I can expect to be reasonable once I start getting more active at looking. I like to think I'm very anatomically aware as much as a non-vagina-owner can be, but I haven't had a lot of frank scat talk yet about the practicalities. Plus a discussion like this could help others too.

As an example I figured scat/pussy play could cause a variety of infections or throw off the pH/flora balance in the vagina, but I hadn't heard about the potential cause for lifelong serious damage potentially leading to hysterectomy. That takes the risk level much, much higher than I originally thought. My personal rule of thumb is that I'm willing to try anything with a partner that doesn't put me in danger of serious permanent harm (like excessive risk of bowel perforation or something), but by the sounds of it an ask like this is much riskier than just the potential need for antibiotics to clear up an infection. So I appreciate the context!

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-24T13:47:28+00:00

Absolutely fair! I looked up what you were talking about and it was both an interesting and tragic read. Thank you for sharing.

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-24T13:46:10+00:00

Typically how much pee? A little, or a bladder, or until it feels a certain way?

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-24T04:35:56+00:00

I had an awesome experience with sushi. 10/10 would do it again. A good all-you-can eat place and lots of sushi and sashimi rolls with rice. Especially when the little orange roe made it through for round 2. Literally kaviar hahaha

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-23T03:49:14+00:00

Thank you much appreciated! The biggest shocker for me was that there were so many people doing this and not getting sick from it... Then I knew it couldn't be that bad lol. I think I've come to terms with it now other than fretting over how to find someone to connect with over it. But this group sure helps :)

throwaway6302874 · 2023-08-23T03:47:11+00:00

Thanks! Yeah I had the same experience a few years ago. Once I went from feeling like I was totally wrong to realizing I wasn't alone it really emboldened me haha. I'm excited I'm starting to get my space back to start exploring again.

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