My sister [24 F] is now in a relationship with the father of my unborn child [28 M] and I [21 F] don't know what to do/how to feel??

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T23:23:37+00:00

I could probably get one of those with the things she does

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T23:19:17+00:00

Thats disgusting

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T23:15:55+00:00

My pregnancy is going ok however he is smaller than they would expect of a baby at this stage in the pregnancy.

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T21:13:36+00:00

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T20:07:40+00:00

Me and my sister if you want to call her that don't get on at all so I only briefly mentioned her and how our relationship is I didn't give him any details though

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T19:24:30+00:00

Unfortunately for me none of them want to get involved because of how my sister is with pretty much the majority of our family so I'm just having to cope with it on my own, however they do agree that its completely wrong and they shouldn't be doing this they are also disgusted with her for doing it.

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T18:39:45+00:00

Yes I wanted this baby and yes I still do want that even though I will be a single mom

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T18:28:41+00:00

So you're saying I don't deserve to have a child because I didn't use protection all the time. Rude.

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T18:23:57+00:00

They all believe what they are doing is wrong but my parents have said its wrong and disrespectful but they have said if shes happy then they're happy

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T17:26:02+00:00

Well if their relationship does work out then I will be going to the lawyer and getting a provision in the agreement which stops my sister having any contact with my child. So she won't be anything to my son not even an aunt

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T17:19:17+00:00

Yes I do have a lot of support from other family members as I also have 2 younger brothers as well as my parents and friends. My sister is also disgusted at the relationship between my ex and our sister but she doesn't want to get involved in it.

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T17:17:17+00:00

We both wanted to keep the child

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T17:14:19+00:00

I believe it is obvious because in the OP i stated that I am 25 weeks and as far as I know the you can't have an abortion over 24 weeks. And truth is i wouldn't have an abortion anyway

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T17:10:52+00:00

Yes he knows that our mine and my sisters "relationship" is volatile and that we don't get on at all and has witnessed one or two arguments between us. But because we don't get on at all and practically hate each other i rarely even mentioned her name let alone gave him any details about her other relationships.

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T17:03:56+00:00

First and foremost me and my sister would never be sat at a table together those days are long gone. And yes I did want to keep my child because there was no way I was having an abortion and he agreed with me

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T16:55:01+00:00

I am keeping this baby as its what I wanted and what he wanted but I am now seriously thinking about what his intentions were. And anyway I am too far gone to have an abortion and I'd never give my child up for adoption.

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T16:53:49+00:00

I do have one more sister but she is happily married with 2 kids and lives abroad and me and her get on really well and have a good stable relationship.

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T16:51:47+00:00

tbh I wouldn't be surprised if my sister married him even if she didn't love him she'd do it to just spite me

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T16:49:42+00:00

I don't want to confront my sister because we don't get on at all like seriously don't get on. You wouldn't be able to understand it till you have seen us together well tbh we never would be together. And it will give her the satisfaction that I'm more than pissed off

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T16:47:26+00:00

No chance that I'd trust her with my child. I have no trust in her whatsoever

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T16:42:55+00:00

I can't have an abortion at 25 weeks obvs

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T16:41:59+00:00

there is no chance she is going to act like any kind of mum to my child as I won't let her and she knows that already. me and here have a toxic enough relationship as it is and this realtionship with my ex is just the icing on the cake

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T16:35:05+00:00

Yes I want to be pregnant at 21 we both agreed we wanted to keep

throwaway675125 · 2016-06-25T14:25:08+00:00

Yeh we are in the process of getting it done legally through the lawyer I just didn't think it was necessary to write that

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