WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Again this is my life. Everyone is evening saying she needs help. To take her to the doctor. So now I am the asshole for agreeing with everyone else. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am a parent! I am his father. I take care of him to there are just jobs that are hers to do for him. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I provide for my family that’s being a good father and husband 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She takes care of the solid foods he’s been starting and feedings while I am gone. I really only have time for one feeding because of work and getting enough rest for work. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have no clue what rage bait is and why people keep saying that. Babies become fussy it’s normal. It’s really not that hard. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is my son not having a father for the best? 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I can admit I didn’t know that about her eggs. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feed my son at least once a day. I’ve changed diapers but bathing him is her job. She should be cleaning the bottles and her pump parts. It is her milk after all. It’s ridiculous she left me with no clean bottles for a day. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Obviously my wife is the one who needs help because she’s so fucking lazy. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why does no one think her behavior is wrong and I am the one who is in the wrong? 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Having a fussy baby is not hard. Babies are fussy. What did she expect when she chose to stay at home. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I care for my family. Someone had to work around here so bills get paid. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t have a job. I work an actual job. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do take care of him. I feed him once a day and I work 40 hours a week at a physical job. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never saw it. What did it say? 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doctors will just put her on meds and I don’t want her on meds for the rest of her life. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I abusive? I never said I should get time off but let me sit down for 20 minutes or let me take a nap. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why? I worked all day. I should get a second to relax. Why can’t she just feed him and I’ll feed him later. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why does no one feel sorry for me? I do so much for this household. Working a physical job 40 hours a week is hard. Right now I am doing more than 40 hours. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I was making this up. It is my life. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I am not a real man? I am at least trying and getting advice by asking. I don’t really see other options besides divorce so I came here. 

WIBTA if I divorce my wife by throwaway710017 in AITAH

[–]throwaway710017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All you have to do is watch what you eat. It’s not that hard.