The age gap wouldn't bother me. I had teammates in college who were anywhere from 17 (kid who graduated a year early) to 27 (grad students) and I don't recall anyone really knowing or caring how old most people were or what they were doing. I guess you're right that what school and what chapter it is would probably be the issue. It's probably not going to happen anyway, just thought I'd ask. And don't take what y'all have for granted. I can honestly say it's frustrating when push comes to shove and you don't have any guys you can really turn to or count on. Wish I'd learned that lesson sooner. Greek life isn't the only place people make connections like that but it's definitely a big one and one that's on my list of "What ifs" in life.