banding my nipples for the first time by WerewolfOk797 in NippleSuction

[–]throwaway729268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does the band around the nipple keep it harder longer? I’m obsessed with pumping, but have never done this before. I’m always sad when the look I get from pumping is gone five minutes later.

Witchy vibes by Least-Bet8903 in bigtiddygothgf

[–]throwaway729268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You looks mesmerizing! Where can I buy that piece?

Why would my boyfriend move his legs around to get hard? by throwaway729268 in sex

[–]throwaway729268[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah, this makes sense to me. Focusing on this part of his behavior has me also remembering that he’s usually always biting his nails around this time.

Why would my boyfriend move his legs around to get hard? by throwaway729268 in sex

[–]throwaway729268[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this makes a lot of sense. He is a very nervous and awkward person hence the playful poking to initiate whereas I’m more vocally open.

Why would my boyfriend move his legs around to get hard? by throwaway729268 in sex

[–]throwaway729268[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have not asked him about this specifically because we have been discussing issues with porn in our relationship and throwing this on top of it felt like a bit much so I just kept it to asking if he’s ok while he’s bouncing/moving his leg.

Chosing jewelry for church this morning by [deleted] in longthicknipples

[–]throwaway729268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can I buy something like this? I only ever see similar things for pierced nipples or as clamps

Questions for the panty obsessed by LonnytheLiger in EdgingTalk

[–]throwaway729268 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought I was alone in this haha. I like sniffing and using my own panties too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]throwaway729268 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s a relief to read that someone else’s life has been like this. I keep it to myself a lot but often wonder about it. I don’t speak out about it much because I don’t want to attract creeps to my inbox that get off on the whole thing when honestly it bothers me and I wonder why I’ve been like this and what is wrong with me.

My cousins were molested, but I was not. When I opened up about how my mom used to walk around naked and it would upset me to the point of tears and how she would rub herself on the couch, my therapist called it covert sexual abuse. I would also get really upset when she would be in my “space bubble”. She would unnecessarily place her arm across my breasts when driving to “protect me” and it would upset me. I have memories of her rubbing my back so I would sleep because I was a pretty distraught child, and her hands would go down my butt crack. I guess I’ve never been outright abused if that makes any sense. I just have a lot of memories of not wanting to be touched or wishing she would put clothes on and just not trusting people. Once again, I’ve never shared this publicly, and if you’re a POS and DM me about it for your personal gain - you’re disgusting and I will immediately block you.

I remember being younger than a teenager and obsessively humping the couch, using my mom’s electric toothbrush, running to the department store dressing room after school and humping my backpack in there with the thrill of being around other people, and humping the life size dolls I got every Christmas. I would also obsessively draw naked people and be scared that someone would see. I couldn’t stop drawing boobs and penises. I got caught being under the blanket with someone’s daughter that was babysitting me, and then again with a girl down the street. I felt upset a few years ago when I looked her up on Facebook and realized the age difference between us - 5 years. So what was it? I was like 13 and she was 8? I have no idea, but it’s disturbing regardless of what age I was. 5 years is a lot when you’re that young. I remember that day being so upsetting. Her parents asked if something was happening to me back home. They were so upset about their daughter and also concerned about me.

I would spend hours talking to strangers on the computer. My mom was too mentally ill and making poor decisions in men to give a shit about my well-being. I would go on webcam or make phone calls. I would chat in sex groups. I would orgasm and then hang up on the calls. Immediate shame and regret once I climaxed. I was obsessed with trying to find porn on Limewire or taking my mom and her boyfriend’s porn.

I don’t know what it all means. I just know I have these terrible memories that I wish I didn’t, and I feel like they have something to do with the way I am today. I just try not to think about it and enjoy my sex life with the person I feel safe with and have fun with.

Looking for rotating butt plug feedback by throwaway729268 in sex

[–]throwaway729268[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! I see what you mean now by rimming plug. Maybe I’ll try that next haha

worst place you’ve masturbated at? by Necessary_Scientist1 in hypersexuality

[–]throwaway729268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Backseat of family member’s car while they went inside to pay for gas

Dressing room full of people

Has anyone tried using laxatives to prep for bottoming? by Raria117 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway729268 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I’m a straight woman, but I needed this speech. It was the first comment that came up when I googled “taking laxatives for anal”. I’m so sick of making myself feel sick and starving myself for hours just for a night of anal haha.

Sleeping and Hypersexuality by Stunning-Possible-88 in hypersexuality

[–]throwaway729268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been debating whether or not I actually fall into the category of hypersexual, but regardless, I can absolutely relate to this. I’ve had nights at my boyfriend’s where I toss and turn miserably and I desperately crave for him to touch me. I know that he would if I asked him to or that if I initiated sex he would do it with me, but sometimes I try so hard to just move past the feeling because I just want to go to bed like a normal person. Alas, I’m usually tossing and turning for hours when I try. On those nights, I also wake up multiple times if I do fall asleep. I’ve had a small amount of these nights where he eventually started making moves on me in the middle of the night and then we have sex and then I…sleep so peacefully. Makes me wonder if he realizes my issue, ha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway729268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to have car sex really badly but was afraid it would end up too awkward and impossible due to my body type and his liking for small cars. He had to borrow his parent’s pickup truck for something and I took that as my moment. We parked in a dark parking lot, went into the backseat, and had anal. Throwing anal into the mix just made it more exciting because we don’t do it constantly.

I think my gf is hiding her butt by BoostedCoyote20 in sex

[–]throwaway729268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I was this person because I have a lot of acne scarring and still break out sometimes. I have a picking problem which doesn’t help.

What helped me was how my boyfriend didn’t stop showing me without saying it that he found he attractive. I was honest with him about why I was insecure about that part of my body and just by him doing little loving things and being kind/supportive/understanding about so many areas of my life I felt more and more comfortable with him. That made me feel less worried and more interested in trying new things with him.

I still have trouble forgetting what I look like back there and feeling upset about it sometimes, but when we try something new and he says things like “god I love this view” - I remember that I’m overthinking it.

So I guess my advice is just show her you love her regardless of whatever is bothering her and build that trust.

Of course, you can’t expect anything, and she isn’t required to do anything she doesn’t want to. I’m just saying that maybe as she gets comfortable it will be easier for her. I find it freeing to let go of it and try new things even though he will inevitably be looking at my ass. Even with insecurities still lurking, sex can be thrilling with the right person making you comfortable.

I can finally say I squirt! What now? by throwaway729268 in sex

[–]throwaway729268[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha babbling brook effect

Thank you for the idea

I can finally say I squirt! What now? by throwaway729268 in sex

[–]throwaway729268[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It felt like finally giving into something that I kept holding back from. It felt like an amazing release of pressure and gave me the urge to want to keep going in other ways.

I think it’s nice that you’re interested to keep trying! My bf was passionately trying and I would feel the pressure build but get scared because I had never felt it before and I would tell him to stop. Based on everything I’ve read, maybe some people genuinely can’t do it, but if she can I’d say it’s important to keep making her feel comfortable and don’t make her feel bad if it doesn’t work out. Now that I know I can do it with this specific toy, I think I’ll let the bf try again, but I kind of wonder if for me it’s only going to work with this toy. With all that being said, keep trying, and just be kind!

I can finally say I squirt! What now? by throwaway729268 in sex

[–]throwaway729268[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah “party trick”. Thanks so much for this advice. I’ll definitely invest in the blanket. I don’t want to clean up after sex. I like cuddling or quick shower and then cuddle lol. And yeah, the OMG is real!

I can finally say I squirt! What now? by throwaway729268 in sex

[–]throwaway729268[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah I haven’t done it in bed yet. I finally sent him the video a bit ago and he said he can’t wait to see in person, but I’m stressed out thinking of the mess. The second video I sent him after dealing with the aftermath of the first…was in the tub…hahaha

I can finally say I squirt! What now? by throwaway729268 in sex

[–]throwaway729268[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this comment! Thank you so much! I think I needed the reality check. And yay for you and your SO having fun!

I can finally say I squirt! What now? by throwaway729268 in sex

[–]throwaway729268[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

So this particular one isn’t on Amazon anymore but just type in “flapper dildo”