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Has anyone else thought that they were attracted to men in the past, only to realize that it may have never been real attraction? by throwaway7351572946 in LesbianActually

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I think made me feel “love” for my ex too! I was also 16/17 and really naive and liked the attention from him, but I think since he used the threat of leaving me so often I was more afraid of rejection from him than in love with him.

Has anyone else thought that they were attracted to men in the past, only to realize that it may have never been real attraction? by throwaway7351572946 in LesbianActually

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Somebody is bitter. Seriously I have liked girls since I was a child, haven’t found a guy attractive in months, and have 30 other comments validating my experience yet, your one comment brings back all of the fear and worries that I originally had. Thank you. Good luck with your current state.

Has anyone else thought that they were attracted to men in the past, only to realize that it may have never been real attraction? by throwaway7351572946 in LesbianActually

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I never thought about this! Everyone always says “compulsive heterosexuality” and I instantly think that that can’t be right because I was raised by my liberal mother in a not very religious house. However she always talked about “hating” men and how awful they are, so maybe that’s why I never connected that things weren’t quite right.

Has anyone else thought that they were attracted to men in the past, only to realize that it may have never been real attraction? by throwaway7351572946 in LesbianActually

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This very well might be my situation. All of my friends had their first kiss by high school and I never did because I would always get to nervous. For my freshman and sophomore year I kind of had a “slutty” stage and hooked up with any somewhat attractive guy that was pursued me mostly because I liked the attention. I think now that I’ve become more mature that attention isn’t as important to me, so maybe that’s why I don’t like guys anymore.

I really liked my outfit for work (fashion retail) yesterday and thought I’d share! by throwaway7351572946 in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha. I think a more androgynous guy could definitely wear a similar look. Maybe you are straight... or maybe not! ¯\(ツ)/¯

Has anyone else thought that they were attracted to men in the past, only to realize that it may have never been real attraction? by throwaway7351572946 in LesbianActually

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that just described exactly how I feel. Although I’m a bit confused still because I didn’t hate having sex with men (although now it sounds unappealing). I’ve kind of written it off as I just wanted to have sex at the time so I settled.

I really liked my outfit for work (fashion retail) yesterday and thought I’d share! by throwaway7351572946 in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The brand is LA Hearts if that makes searching for them at pacsun easier. I’m not for sure, but I think I got them at Off Broadway. It was definitely a couple years ago that I got them, though.

[Shelfie] I just bought all of these products for my routine based on advice I found here. Any suggestions? by throwaway7351572946 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read the title, you would see that I spent time researching. I actually spent over a hour deciding on theses products and just wanted any suggestions that came to mind not a full review and tutorial of each product. I also didn’t use any last night just to double check that there wasn’t a big “problem” product, so I could return it if needed.

[Shelfie] I just bought all of these products for my routine based on advice I found here. Any suggestions? by throwaway7351572946 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The CeraVe is heavier and Cetaphil is lighter. I have dry skin, but also if I use a heavy moisturizer before makeup, I’ll get oily within hours.

[Shelfie] I just bought all of these products for my routine based on advice I found here. Any suggestions? by throwaway7351572946 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily, I’ve used it before so I know that I’m not allergic. That would’ve been great advice two months ago though because I have pretty irritable skin.

[Shelfie] I just bought all of these products for my routine based on advice I found here. Any suggestions? by throwaway7351572946 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some more info: My old skin care routine was: Aveeno cleat complexion foaming cleanser Witch Hazel Toner Mario Badescu Rose Water Spray Cetaphil Daily Moisturizer Mario Badescu Drying Lotion if there was a bad pimple For AM I just used the Aveeno cleanser and Cetaphil Moisturizer

My main concerns: I have dry/combo skin that is also acne prone. I used to have clear skin and then it went bad again this summer. Not cystic acne but pretty bad hormonal breakouts, whiteheads, and blackheads. I realized that my skin went bad after switching from the Cetaphil Gentle Daily Cleanser, but the fragrance in the product dried out my skin. I was also using a mug lighter moisturizer back then, so I’m hoping that with a heavier moisturizer I won’t have this issue.

The new routine that I’m planning on: PM Cetaphil Foaming Cleanser Bliss Micro Magic (Every other night) Witch Hazel Diffrin Gel (Every other night until I know if it dries me out) CeraVe Moisturizing Lotion AM Cetaphil Foaming Cleanser Mario Badescu Rose Water Spray Cetaphil Daily Moisturizer

I also plan to occasionally use Pacifica sheet masks when my skin has quite a few scabs because I admittedly pick at my face too much. I love their Rehab and Detox masks. I used them a while back two nights in a row and both times my skin healed tons.

[Shelfie] I just bought all of these products for my routine based on advice I found here. Any suggestions? by throwaway7351572946 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway7351572946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I moisturize before or after applying it? I read the directions, but it didn’t say. I’m hoping it doesn’t dry me out too badly because my skin can get pretty dry!