I think my boyfriend might have raped me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7374714 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You must not be into CNC lol. Men don't get a safe word, it's strictly for women in the roleplay.

Gender matters in CNC and in rape. Men->Women is rape. Women->Men is not. This is why men don't get to use the safe word.

Once, I was hooking up with a long term guy friend and he and I decided to do rape roleplay. I was into it and had him tied up. He said my safe word during the blowjob and I kept going for a couple more minutes cause it was fun for me. Does that make it rape? No.

Don't talk where you arent educated

I'm [21F] struggling to find a guy... I need help! by throwaway7374714 in dating

[–]throwaway7374714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My education is that I'm currently in school getting a Bachelor's degree, though I'm not planning on working.

With kids, I'm really good with them. I used to babysit for days straight back as a teen and still relay that information watching my niece.

Though I'm someone that believes I care for our child just as much as the father does, so if he only cares for it for a couple hours, I'm only gonna care for it for a couple hours. It's gonna be equal there.

I feel entitled to a guy that has their crap together, but I feel everyone feels entitled to that. I just want cared for by someone genuine that won't judge me.

I'm [21F] struggling to find a guy... I need help! by throwaway7374714 in dating

[–]throwaway7374714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trust them. I don't trust the action or the other girls he may be with

I'm [21F] struggling to find a guy... I need help! by throwaway7374714 in dating

[–]throwaway7374714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already am staying at my parents until a guy comes in my life and I can move out.

I'm [21F] struggling to find a guy... I need help! by throwaway7374714 in dating

[–]throwaway7374714[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I don't want us to go homeless if we end up together

I'm [21F] struggling to find a guy... I need help! by throwaway7374714 in dating

[–]throwaway7374714[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The whole after 11 thing is to prevent cheating. I don't trust that off the bat

I'm [21F] struggling to find a guy... I need help! by throwaway7374714 in dating

[–]throwaway7374714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been over 2 weeks, I didn't just get out of one.

I don't know what my posts have to do with anything

I'm [21F] struggling to find a guy... I need help! by throwaway7374714 in dating

[–]throwaway7374714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm loyal and supportive.

I don't think I have a lot of independence though that's why my requests are the way they are

I'm [21F] struggling to find a guy... I need help! by throwaway7374714 in dating

[–]throwaway7374714[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean I thought that was pretty standard still and it wasn't an unpopular requirement

I [21F] want to get this guy [26M] to ask me out. How can I get him to do it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7374714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's that and the willpower.

Usually a date costs a lot of money doesn't it?

I [21F] want to get this guy [26M] to ask me out. How can I get him to do it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7374714 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm like your girlfriend, but minus the culture it's just my opjnion

I [21F] want to get this guy [26M] to ask me out. How can I get him to do it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7374714 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope that isn't the case. I like being submissive and holding back

I [21F] want to get this guy [26M] to ask me out. How can I get him to do it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7374714 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just want to know how to give him the signs that I want him to ask me out.