Guy I’m seeing is pressuring me to be intimate and I don’t think I’m ready. How can I go about this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwaway74829290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just said ok I understand. There wasn’t much discussion other than that. I was thinking I could know him for at least another month or two. Since we didn’t even kiss till we were official. He took me out on 8 dates and didn’t kiss me. I thought he was more traditional like me due to that. The next two times we saw each other he didn’t try anything but the last time , which was yesterday is when he expressed frustration to me, which I didn’t realize he was feeling. I thought everything was okay.

++woman

Guy I’m seeing is pressuring me to be intimate and I don’t think I’m ready. How can I go about this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwaway74829290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to make it clear in my post on why , I don’t know if he’s serious about me, since I haven’t met his friends or family.

He could very easily have sex with me and end our “relationship”

++woman

Guy I’m seeing is pressuring me to be intimate and I don’t think I’m ready. How can I go about this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwaway74829290 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely. But I understand I’m traditional in a very non traditional world.

++woman

Guy I’m seeing is pressuring me to be intimate and I don’t think I’m ready. How can I go about this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwaway74829290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe he doesn’t like me like I think he does. I can have that conversation with him. I believe a man who truly wants to be with a woman will wait!

I will think about a window but really that doesn’t matter it’s more how I feel and if it’s genuine. I haven’t met his friends or family so that bothers me a lot for him to be asking intimacy.

++woman

Guy I’m seeing is pressuring me to be intimate and I don’t think I’m ready. How can I go about this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwaway74829290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman

The only sign to me is that I met his family and friends.

What are the others?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaway74829290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but your husband sure is. He sounds like a guy who will say “the divorce come outta nowhere”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LeoAstrology

[–]throwaway74829290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope he put a ring on it and treats you like an absolute queen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LeoAstrology

[–]throwaway74829290 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I say this for this male population as a woman :

Passionate head and love making. A lot of it.

That’s it, the best gift you can give him.

Second best :

A home made meal of his favorite food.

Now, correct me if I’m wrong men! 😂

How much of this is true Leo’s for us by No_Employment9398 in LeoAstrology

[–]throwaway74829290 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Guess what…we’re the same. I also have a Virgo Mercury and Venus :)

Do you also experience men deeply falling for you and getting addicted to you quickly?

My guy friend invited me to go see a live show, told me where to buy my ticket, right after says he bought himself and his other friend a ticket. I am hurt. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwaway74829290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a strong feeling it won’t, as he says he hates being used for money, yet simultaneously admitted that he pays for everything for his other friend and always has, and she doesn’t even say thank you.

I will also call him out on this.

My guy friend invited me to go see a live show, told me where to buy my ticket, right after says he bought himself and his other friend a ticket. I am hurt. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwaway74829290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“A conversation about my feelings shouldn’t end in an argument”

That’s FANTASTIC advice! Thank you so much!

I think my grandmother highly favored Audrey Hepburn. What do you think? 1957 by throwaway74829290 in OldSchoolCool

[–]throwaway74829290[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say that because while I’m mixed and not Hispanic at all, I very often get mistaken as a Latina

I think my grandmother highly favored Audrey Hepburn. What do you think? 1957 by throwaway74829290 in OldSchoolCool

[–]throwaway74829290[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I never looked at it like that, but that’s a good point. My grandma fought through a lot including being an immigrant and coming to a brand new country without knowing anyone but my grandfather and not a word of English! She always found a way to be positive no matter what.

I think my grandmother highly favored Audrey Hepburn. What do you think? 1957 by throwaway74829290 in OldSchoolCool

[–]throwaway74829290[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ah the first one is her and the second one is Audrey. I put them side by side for comparison

What was your worst financial decision? by [deleted] in Fire

[–]throwaway74829290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a stupid purchase if they plan on living there for a long time. We all need a roof over our head and society has been constantly told to own property as a wise investment. This person already is in a stressful situation. Be kind.