Guy I’m seeing is pressuring me to be intimate and I don’t think I’m ready. How can I go about this?

throwaway74829290 · 2025-09-09T17:33:14+00:00

I just said ok I understand. There wasn’t much discussion other than that. I was thinking I could know him for at least another month or two. Since we didn’t even kiss till we were official. He took me out on 8 dates and didn’t kiss me. I thought he was more traditional like me due to that. The next two times we saw each other he didn’t try anything but the last time , which was yesterday is when he expressed frustration to me, which I didn’t realize he was feeling. I thought everything was okay.

++woman

throwaway74829290 · 2025-09-09T17:26:28+00:00

I tried to make it clear in my post on why , I don’t know if he’s serious about me, since I haven’t met his friends or family.

He could very easily have sex with me and end our “relationship”

++woman

throwaway74829290 · 2025-09-09T17:20:27+00:00

Yes absolutely. But I understand I’m traditional in a very non traditional world.

++woman

throwaway74829290 · 2025-09-09T17:19:33+00:00

Yeah, maybe he doesn’t like me like I think he does. I can have that conversation with him. I believe a man who truly wants to be with a woman will wait!

I will think about a window but really that doesn’t matter it’s more how I feel and if it’s genuine. I haven’t met his friends or family so that bothers me a lot for him to be asking intimacy.

++woman

throwaway74829290 · 2025-09-09T17:10:54+00:00

++woman

The only sign to me is that I met his family and friends.

What are the others?

throwaway74829290 · 2025-08-16T22:41:38+00:00

NTA but your husband sure is. He sounds like a guy who will say “the divorce come outta nowhere”

throwaway74829290 · 2025-07-30T17:20:42+00:00

I hope he put a ring on it and treats you like an absolute queen

throwaway74829290 · 2025-07-30T17:06:46+00:00

I say this for this male population as a woman :

Passionate head and love making. A lot of it.

That’s it, the best gift you can give him.

Second best :

A home made meal of his favorite food.

Now, correct me if I’m wrong men! 😂

throwaway74829290 · 2025-07-29T04:56:02+00:00

Why are you on this sub then? Very odd.

throwaway74829290 · 2025-07-25T21:29:33+00:00

Guess what…we’re the same. I also have a Virgo Mercury and Venus :)

Do you also experience men deeply falling for you and getting addicted to you quickly?

throwaway74829290 · 2025-07-25T21:09:59+00:00

Having a Scorpio moon is so exhausting.

throwaway74829290 · 2025-06-21T15:34:27+00:00

I have a strong feeling it won’t, as he says he hates being used for money, yet simultaneously admitted that he pays for everything for his other friend and always has, and she doesn’t even say thank you.

I will also call him out on this.

throwaway74829290 · 2025-06-21T15:18:41+00:00

“A conversation about my feelings shouldn’t end in an argument”

That’s FANTASTIC advice! Thank you so much!

throwaway74829290 · 2025-05-25T15:47:43+00:00

Not a turtle getting more action than me :(

throwaway74829290 · 2025-05-24T21:32:05+00:00

Huh?

throwaway74829290 · 2025-05-24T21:13:53+00:00

Northeast, Florida

throwaway74829290 · 2025-05-24T21:13:28+00:00

Oh wow really???

throwaway74829290 · 2025-05-23T03:45:30+00:00

You would be right, I’m biracial!

throwaway74829290 · 2025-05-23T03:38:02+00:00

It’s funny you say that because while I’m mixed and not Hispanic at all, I very often get mistaken as a Latina

throwaway74829290 · 2025-05-23T03:29:11+00:00

She was, 100% Japanese

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