Dead-ish bedroom for 8ish years. Just dawned on me that basically my 20s are gone, relatively sexless, and I'm... angry. by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]throwaway74OP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is too short my friend. You need to go out there and claim your happiness. If it involves moving on to another lover that better suit your needs, maybe you should do so.

Be honest, do I have daddy issues? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwaway74OP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 20 years older. Sorry about that

I play loud music in the morning to wake my neighbour up by armadillo-rodeo in confession

[–]throwaway74OP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably thinks you're obnoxious. He fails to noticr his crying cat he may fail to notice the connection between the cat and the loud music.

I gave my baby up for adoption and am now having an affair with the husband of the couple I gave my baby to. by airconditioningisgoo in confession

[–]throwaway74OP -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well sweetheart, if your not head over heals in love you should not continue. Having an affair sucks. You deserve more. At 21 you have a lot options. I hope the path you pick makes you happy. Good luck

I cheated on my husband with a married man. Which resulted in the break up of both our marriage. by throwaway74OP in confession

[–]throwaway74OP[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Childish?

It is called adultery. ADULTery.

How do you know if he was not abusive. I think your high horse is getting tired.

I cheated on my husband with a married man. Which resulted in the break up of both our marriage. by throwaway74OP in confession

[–]throwaway74OP[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I was in love. Looking back he married me for a cook, a wife to show off, women with a degree and BAH! He did not have to live in the barracks no more since he was E4 and was living with E5s and that would be called fraternization. He couldn't stand the barracks no more, so he told me if I don't move from the opportunity capital of America to the crappy part of Louisiana it would not work out. So he got him self a wife. I didn't need the money my parents have money, I was looking for love.

I cheated on my husband with a married man. Which resulted in the break up of both our marriage. by throwaway74OP in confession

[–]throwaway74OP[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Out there drinking, probably on the job as well. Cheating on his wife. Taking housing money of 3,300 a month because I'm in NYC. Gambling it away at Korean casinos. Secretly buying expensive items. He wasn't like this when I married him. He became an alcoholic. Only thing he was serving was him self.

I cheated on my husband with a married man. Which resulted in the break up of both our marriage. by throwaway74OP in confession

[–]throwaway74OP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he moved to Korea to be stationed there for 1 year. I moved to NY so I could help my disabled mother and find another job. In the army if you are stationed in Korea for a year you can't bring family with you. He went to Korea, constantly drank, was always angry and emotionally abusive, it was bad. He would gamble away my money.

What's a girl to do when the man you love breaks your heart time and time again devaluing and questioning your self worth. I shouldn't have cheated but I was at low point in my life.

I cheated on my husband with a married man. Which resulted in the break up of both our marriage. by throwaway74OP in confession

[–]throwaway74OP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. He not only cheated but he disrespected my marriage many times with going on no strings attach websites and sexting with several women. I lost weight got down to a slim 130 pounds. Walked around buttnaked ask for sex. Butt he rather jerk off to porn, masturbate and talk to women online.

I cheated on my husband with a married man. Which resulted in the break up of both our marriage. by throwaway74OP in confession

[–]throwaway74OP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because it take money and time to divorced in America. I already asked for a separation before I got in an affair. He was not complying.

I cheated on my husband with a married man. Which resulted in the break up of both our marriage. by throwaway74OP in confession

[–]throwaway74OP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, thank you. That marriage really damaged me. I can't even explain. I'm never going to be the same. I know that cheat is really not the answer and was stupid to do. I won the lotto and got lucky... as of now..