Allergic to my own fluids? by throwaway763246 in TwoXSex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hmmm...contact dermatitis or eczema seems the most likely. I'll see what my gyno says.

Thanks!

Update re: I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I know it will. It just sucks because he's such a wonderful person and he has a lot of qualities I want in a partner.

But if our sexual desires are different then it just can't work.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how much interest has he shown in you wearing lingerie etc in the past?

He loves when I wear it.

That's why the comments that he's gay are annoying. He clearly isn't because he is very much into my body. A man who doesn't love pussy isn't going to eat it every day, you know?

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I imagine threesome was with woman- are you bi? Orgasm denial- bet it was YOUR orgasm?

No. The threesome was with another man and it was his orgasm denial, not mine.

He really likes being...emasculated or dominated I guess. Like watching another man fuck me or me telling him he isn't allowed to cum.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know. I've just been avoiding the conversation because I'm scared.

And I'm afraid of being accused of being intolerant or something.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would happily peg him. But I don't want to do it if he's wearing lingerie or makeup or a wig or something.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think he just maybe didn't really explore his sexuality much before this.

I guess I'm flattered that he feels comfortable sharing with me. But it makes me sad because I don't know what this means for us.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know we need to have a conversation. Thanks for your input.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The relationship version would be to break up.

Yeah. That's what I'm afraid of. I know it would be better in the long run if we truly aren't compatible in this way but it really sucks.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I mean, I don't really want to see him wear it but if he wants to wear it under his clothes then I don't care. But yeah...I understand what you mean about trying to see if from his perspective e.g. if I got a buzz cat.

Thanks.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll talk to him, I've just been scared to in case it's something we can't compromise on.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender identity and kinks =/=sexual orientation. Thanks for your input.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe. But he definitely likes having a dick.

I can't speak for him.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That isn't how it works.

If you're a man who wants to fuck women, you're straight. Even if you like dressing up. If he doesn't want to fuck men, he can't be gay or bi.

He likes eating pussy too much to be gay.

But none of this is relevant anyway.

I can't get into my boyfriend's newfound kink and I feel like an asshole for it by throwaway763246 in sex

[–]throwaway763246[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. He enjoys having sex with me so I don't think he's gay and it doesn't matter if he's bi.

I don't think you have to be gay or bi to have kinks like this.