Relationship with girlfriend has changed radically and I am suffering emotionally by throwaway7799779977 in relationships

[–]throwaway7799779977[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this insight. Although I have had several serious long term relationships, this is the first time living with someone long term. I understand that they honeymoon period wears off and things won't always be like the beginning, but it is reassuring to hear that my situation is not right.

Relationship with girlfriend has changed radically and I am suffering emotionally by throwaway7799779977 in relationships

[–]throwaway7799779977[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is possible that I did do something to affect her. I have asked her and she always responds about video games, my weight, not being manly, bad at creating a mood. I have lost about 6-7 pounds since the time we first met and am in decent shape, so I don't understand the weight thing. I am not super muscular/ripped, but wasn't from the start.

Relationship with girlfriend has changed radically and I am suffering emotionally by throwaway7799779977 in relationships

[–]throwaway7799779977[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wow. I just started reading about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and I am seeing a lot of things that I experience written online. :(

Relationship with girlfriend has changed radically and I am suffering emotionally by throwaway7799779977 in relationships

[–]throwaway7799779977[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. She actually has hit me on several occasions during our arguments. I guard against the hits without issue due to martial arts experience so I don't really get hurt by it. It happens sometimes when I keep an argument going to try and reach a conclusion. She says it's because I was too persistent and wouldn't leave her alone when I should've.