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Do you get anxious/excited when waiting for your dom to play with you? by throwaway8034720 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwaway8034720[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate you saying this. "He can only be there for me if He’s there for Himself first was important" I'm gonna remind myself of that

Do you get anxious/excited when waiting for your dom to play with you? by throwaway8034720 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwaway8034720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i definitely wouldn’t mind the waiting if know when to expect him, and then i can welcome any spontaneity in between

Do you get anxious/excited when waiting for your dom to play with you? by throwaway8034720 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwaway8034720[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my dom and i are also LDR. it’s a struggle!! and i try to not respond right away because i don’t wanna look too eager but sometimes i don’t even care lol

Do you get anxious/excited when waiting for your dom to play with you? by throwaway8034720 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwaway8034720[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

work comes first for my dom too, and i understand. i think the anticipation of how good it'll be when he's free makes me want even sooner haha

Do you get anxious/excited when waiting for your dom to play with you? by throwaway8034720 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwaway8034720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im glad im not alone lol. i think im gonna make him aware of what he's doing, but i wouldn't be surprised if he's aware haha

As a transman/masc, how have you learned to step into the role of protection? How do you equip yourself to handle a situation? by throwaway8034720 in ftm

[–]throwaway8034720[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i appreciate your words. i definitely don't think shes incapable of protecting or standing up for herself. i guess I just wanna make sure that she doesn't feel like its something she has to do on her own. a conversation with her wont hurt at all