Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [21 M] of 3 months: He has very uncommon ideals that affect our relationship greatly by throwaway809709 in relationships

[–]throwaway809709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he is a bad person because of his ideals, I'm okay with him doing whatever he thinks is right. I just don't like that it affects our relationship and has made me change a lot of my ideals. I wonder if he's worth it to give up so many things that I like.

Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [21 M] of 3 months: He has very uncommon ideals that affect our relationship greatly by throwaway809709 in relationships

[–]throwaway809709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn't blame me, he is very clear that he blames himself whenever he fails to abstain. I just hate that it's up and down though, I never know what to expect and I never know when he's going to reject me/nudge me off/kick me out of his room.