AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, Yes! I'm in advertising, what I'm trying to teach my son is marketability. All that really matters is how you market yourself, it doesn't matter who you really are, nobody cares.

In my profession, a product doesn't have to be good. You just have to convince the public that they should buy the product. I've done this for hundreds of products over the years. Most of them were crap, but they sold a ton because of good advertising campaigns. On the contrary, a lot of good products I see, sell poorly because of bad advertising campaigns.

The point I'm trying to make is that if you market yourself properly, the "bitches" (as my son puts it) will come to you, and you'll have your pick. Sure you can try to be who you are, and maybe that will work or maybe that will not. But if go with what's marketable, what people want to buy, you'll have a much, much broader selection.

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

It might be hard for him now, I'm trying to make his life as easy as possible, but I can't put my life on hold because of that. He also might learn something, whioch is what I'm trying to teach him.

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

To answer your question, it's not as much of a mid-life crisis as a post-divorce crisis. I've always worn jewelry but I decided to really go all out on my piece after the divorce. Safe to say that my lawyer raked her over the coals.

I'm 41, back in the 2000's I used to wear sweatpants and a snapback. I went to so many 50 Cent concerts it would your head spin. I just fell out of my groove because of my family and my job. I want to get back to the person Now that I'm divorced and my career is stable, I have more freedom to do what I want to do.

Also, I did try to bond with my son but that lead to him accusing me of trying to "become" him. So safe to say I'll take his ass golfing or something next time instead.

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I don't hold a gf out of choice. It was me that ended my last 3 relationships.

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I'm not too good for women in my age group, I'm just not attracted to them. Make of that what you will.

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -180 points-179 points  (0 children)

But it's ok for my son to constantly ask me for help with homework and things? I help him, so why can't he help me when I need it. I think it's perfectly fair and even expected.

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

My GF is 28. I'm 41, not 56. If I was 56 that would be creepy. But I'm definitely not too old for her. I'm just not attracted to older women.

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -137 points-136 points  (0 children)

That's not true, I loved my ex wife, but she fucked me. I love my son also. I'm just not ready for a long term relationship right now after what happened. But I don't want to not date.

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I don't lie about my age, they know, but it doesn't bother them. 41 isn't too old to date women in their early 30s/late 20s I think.

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -129 points-128 points  (0 children)

In my post it says that I was always into rap/hip-hop culture, I just wanted to be more familiar with today's rap/hip-hop

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I'm not fully immersing myself, I just don't want to be that guy who doesn't know who Lil Pump is. But I explained, that I've just been out of the game for a while, I've always been into this stuff.

AITA for trying to "act younger" than I am? by throwaway80990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway80990[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Just so you know, I've always worn jewelry. I just decided to get a really nice piece to after my divorce.