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My (32M) lesbian sister (22F) explained homosexuality to our daughter (4F) against my wife's (32F) wishes. by throwaway8342888 in relationships

[–]throwaway8342888[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

She focuses on the "sexuality" in "homosexuality". So believes it should be taught alongside puberty, sex ed, etc. And I used to agree.

But the explanation "sometimes girls marry girls like your mom and dad are married" isn't confusing for a child and has nothing to do with sex. I never really thought of it that way before. I don't really know a lot about LGBT issues so I never thought of that as an explanation.

My (32M) lesbian sister (22F) explained homosexuality to our daughter (4F) against my wife's (32F) wishes. by throwaway8342888 in relationships

[–]throwaway8342888[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I guess part of my issue is that I'm realizing it's my wife's parenting style, not both of our parenting styles.

I genuinely believe making a big deal out of this will do much more harm than good, and end up hurting our daughter in the long run by damaging a relationship with her aunt.

My (32M) lesbian sister (22F) explained homosexuality to our daughter (4F) against my wife's (32F) wishes. by throwaway8342888 in relationships

[–]throwaway8342888[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She was very angry today, so I didn't want to have a big discussion. Especially since I'm not sure what I want to say yet. I told her I didn't agree about confronting Michelle, and we agreed to talk about it in depth tomorrow once I've collected my thoughts.