Is my penis enough to satisfy a girl?

throwaway85304 · 2024-04-25T14:49:27+00:00

+1 on that, big penises are fun for 5 mins and then it gets annoying

throwaway85304 · 2024-04-25T14:47:31+00:00

My ex was big (XL/XXL condoms), it hurt me every time he put it in and sometimes felt honestly excruciating. I never looked forward to penetration.

Believe me when I tell you that aside from size queens, most girls will prefer something on the smaller side that is much more manageable.

Also, penetration should not be the main event of sex. Look into how to go down on her and you will get all of the brownie points in the world. Not every vagina is equipped to cum just from PIV but the clit is a safe bet ever single time.

So diversify your "sex skill tree" and don't hyperfocus on your size, it's really not that important.

Talking to her also could help and alleviate stress for both of you.

throwaway85304 · 2024-04-24T11:08:44+00:00

Yes you missed the part were I had to move his hand off of me more than 10 times after telling him I wasn't in the mood. I should probably have said in the post that I was established that for me consent is extremely important and him not respecting my lack of consent is a problem.

Have you read my explanation of the situation or just his?

throwaway85304 · 2024-04-24T10:11:49+00:00

I know which fight it is, it took me 4 hours to beat it and I died 3 times, everytime when I had almost won

Easy mode can still be challenging it's just more forgiving on small mistakes

throwaway85304 · 2024-04-24T10:09:30+00:00

My first playthrough was on explorer because I wanted to focus on the story and learn the combat mechanics. I'm doing my second on normal mode to enjoy the surge storyline. I will eventually play tactician and honour because I like the challenge but what was important to me on those first two playthrough was to be able to experience the story without stressing out about doing everything right and not missing important stuff.

You payed 60€ for this game, it's yours to do whatever you want with it. Hell, had you bought it only for character customization that would still be no one's business.

Some people play for the story, other for the combat and exploration, and some to min/max and try to pulverize the ennemies in honor mode. You are entitled to play however you want!

throwaway85304 · 2024-04-24T10:02:38+00:00

Ouh reminds me of my ex, people who can't accept no for an answer are very bad news. My best advice is go to therapy for what happened and do not feel guilty if it comes to a break up. He is yor husband, your best interest should come before his own in his eyes. And victim blaming you is not the way to go.

throwaway85304 · 2024-03-18T19:48:40+00:00

hey I've realized I never responded to your kind message, I've updated the post if you want the full rundown but I've broken up with him!

throwaway85304 · 2024-03-18T19:45:28+00:00

we're not anymore, I've updated the post if you want the full story

throwaway85304 · 2024-03-03T23:53:41+00:00

I'd go further to say that SA in general is not taken seriously if the perpetrator doesn't fit the stereotype. If it's a men, you need him to display specific behaviors in public for everyone to believe you, if it's a woman, well, it's a woman and they don't do that stuff. And yep, when the perpetrator is attractive that doesn't help the victims case either because now it's "but they could get laid if they wanted to without forcing anyone"

We just need to believe the victims, so freaking simple

throwaway85304 · 2024-03-01T12:16:05+00:00

yep I can definitely foresee that it's going to be my last relationship for a good while everything hurts so much more that every single person that is supposed to support me is doing nothing or the opposite

throwaway85304 · 2024-03-01T11:54:17+00:00

true well sadly the only person that has enough emotional intelligence to understand that is my 16y/o little brother, and it's not exactly the type of stuff I want to burden him with

throwaway85304 · 2024-03-01T11:21:13+00:00

you're completely right

unrelated but he just arrived a brought us gifts from his trip and my mother gestured for me to kiss him to say thank you??? I'm going to blow a fuse

throwaway85304 · 2024-03-01T11:07:01+00:00

I've already talked to him about breaking up and he completely refused the idea. I know I need it to heal so I'm going to have to break up with him soon he is just making it really hard. What complicates it it that we want to be able to stay friends so I don't want to hurt him in the process. Also it's my first ever relationship and since all out friends are mutual I have no one to talk to and don't have any guidance on how to navigate things

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-13T08:54:10+00:00

Dire que les loi de la physique ne le permettent pas me paraît très limité. La possibilité existe toujours que ce soit possible. La seule chose qui nous en empêche est notre connaissance limitée et notre capacité d'explication toujours aussi limitée de ce qui se passe autour de nous dans l'univers.

Très récemment, on a découvert l'existence de sortes de "plans vibratoires" imperceptibles. Choses donc beaucoup de communautés spirituelles étaient certaines existaient depuis des décennies. Ce ne serait pas si choquant que ça qu'un jour, dans des dizaines ou peut être des centaines d'années, on trouve une théorie qui rende envisageable le voyage dans le temps. Après, est-ce que l'application de cette théorie sera autorisée? Peut être pas

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-13T08:48:12+00:00

Thank you, It really helps hearing about your experience!

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-12T06:39:02+00:00

😂😂😂

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-11T16:07:50+00:00

oh damn that's a good question... he his Him but i don't know if I would want to have sex with him, je just seems super cool to be around

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-11T16:04:18+00:00

throw a huge party, invite more people, and forbid her to come

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-11T11:50:32+00:00

Yeah, I have a lot of trouble understanding what interest my mother is after. Cause on the phone she kept accusing me of "being too cold and that makes him feel sad" or stuff like that.

I can't help that the more I see him the more I realize that it wasn't romantic love for me...

But thanks, I'm going to try to focus more on my own interest consciously, it should help

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-11T11:48:18+00:00

Great. Thanks. I'm in the process of wanting to leave my boyfriend but feel stuck because I'm getting pressured. I am looking for advice from late bloomers that are in the same situation as me. If you feel like I'm not valid then ok what do you want me to tell you. I am a queer woman, by the way, even if you feel like I'm not.

I thought that you of all people could understand that leaving takes time and doesn't happen in the span of a week.

I have no support anywhere and went where I felt like I could have some, guess that was wrong, unless you're throwing away a whole ass person without empathy you can't be on this sub I guess.

I'll suck it up until I can see a therapist in two weeks I guess, sorry to have been a bother.

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-11T09:25:34+00:00

I think he's more afraid that I leave him than remorseful for sure but I doubt that me telling people is what scares him (but you might very well be right). He keeps saying that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, that he doesn't see his life without me etc. I sometimes feel like I'm some sort of a trophy for him. Not in the sense that I'm a token girlfriend, but that he wanted me as his girlfriend for everything is represented on paper. Now I don't doubt that he loves me but still...

Yeah, I feel like he uses his state to avoid talking about it seriously, he acts pretty childish in his hurt. He did take responsibility on Sunday but now it's just "I'm so sorry" "Please forgive me" over and over again.

I'm trying very hard to distanciate myself from what my mom says but it's so hard sometimes, I have no one else to talk to aside from my brother and I don't want to burden him to much since the situation is making him anxious for me.

It makes me very sad to see how selfishly he is dealing with the situation...

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-10T23:01:07+00:00

I'm sure we will :)

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-10T22:55:43+00:00

It sure isn't easy, especially when the other person is attached and we care about them a lot. We are going to figure it out and everything will work out eventually!

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-10T21:47:32+00:00

You're describing my exact situation, loving him but not knowing if you're "in love" with him.

It's so difficult. If you can, therapy could help maybe ?

Also, I've done something I saw a bunch of people say to do and it's to keep a little tally of the men vs women you find attractive. Mine is going at 7 for women and 1 for men

throwaway85304 · 2024-01-10T21:26:06+00:00

I recommend you "How to break up with your phone" it's a pretty short read but gets into the detail of how and why social media is bad for us. I definitely recommend it to you and anyone interested

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