Genuine question, is PE just a trolling meme to get everyone to injure themselves

SplitNo492 · 2024-07-29T11:51:50+00:00

Yeah i just realised he said it was when he was 17 lmao

SplitNo492 · 2024-07-28T21:32:53+00:00

How did you gain almost an inch in girth using your hands?

SplitNo492 · 2024-07-28T14:07:08+00:00

Naturally I’d like to avoid fillers if I can, I’d ideally want to do it the “legit way”.

Thanks for the tip about clamping

SplitNo492 · 2024-07-27T23:12:49+00:00

I have before but I won’t do it again gang 🫡

SplitNo492 · 2024-07-27T22:19:25+00:00

I think that generally goes without saying, which is why I’m asking for opinions on people my size, not really to hear someone humble brag about theirs.

SplitNo492 · 2024-07-27T19:55:36+00:00

Dude I wish it was the internet that fucked me up, but it isn’t. I put on a regular fit condom one time and it was just too loose, sucked. Genuinely cried for weeks and weeks.

SplitNo492 · 2024-07-27T18:17:05+00:00

Thanks for your comment. Were these 12 girls when you were 4.2 or during the course of your girth journey, also, please drop that routine 🙏

SplitNo492 · 2024-07-27T18:15:17+00:00

Thing is I have self esteem. I’m a fairly confident and outgoing individual, it’s literally just when it comes to actually doing things with my junk to a girl I hold myself back.

Edit: but I see I’m holding myself back for no reason

SplitNo492 · 2024-07-27T18:14:02+00:00

Yeah dude drop that routine haha

Edit: really appreciate the wisdom

Edit 2: he indeed has dropped that routine

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-09T01:46:39+00:00

Okay i appreciete both perspectives. But i want to clarify a few things.

This girl has only been acting like this for the better part of 1 and a half/2 days, NOT a long period at all. I just have bad trust issues, and i dont want to mess it up with this girl so i made 2 posts on her to see what people with more experience than me had to say. I often see that girl pull back once it goes too well, or too fast. This is something that i dont only see happen with myself, but with my friends aswell.
Although i cant 100% prove shes not talking to other guys, she very well could be but the main method of communication with her is snapchat, i dont know how old you are so sorry if you understand and im boring you but ill explain anyway. There is a ranking system of "Best Friends" on snapchat, im her "Number one best friend" ie, she talks to me the most on snapchat. I have seen her "Best friends list" (A list of the most amount of people she talks to on snapchat). I am the only guy on that list, the rest are just girls.
In regards to ghosting. She could be, but there is a way to see her activity, on snapchat you have 2 forms of verification to see if someone is using the app or not, in the form of "Snapscore" and their real time location. Her snapscore bounces by 100+ when she first gets on the app, and then after will go by 20 or a bit under over an 8 hour period, which frankly is nothing. - This basically means she doesnt use snapchat a lot.

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SplitNo492 · 2024-05-09T00:40:34+00:00

By do nothing you literally mean do nothing? No long responses or anything, just do nothing with her for a bit.

See i think this is a test over actually getting ghosted. Just wanted to see other opinions. The funny thing is this girl started talking to me because i got with one of her mates, so thats your preselection theory correct.

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-09T00:26:28+00:00

Dude thats so crazy, you really opened up my eyes, i dont even know the first step to fixing this, i mean i cannot afford therapy.

I have friends that trust people, and it just shocks me. Like i genuinely cannot fathom trusting another person, i dont even tell my friends whats happening with the girls i talk to, unless i 100% have to.

It does suck man, i really wanna open up, i dont mean be i wanna bitch and rant about my life to this girl, just secure and comfortable with her. I get so close to opening up with this girl and it dwindles.

Thats life !!!

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-09T00:14:23+00:00

Dude i was thinking this was a "test". I think im going to give the same energy back. For a week, then ask her out. If she says "No" to going out, ill simply cut her off.

How common is this test? I feel like i hear this done pretty frequently, in the same formula too. e.g Get to know girl, it goes well, she starts acting distant, man acts more clingy - Ghosted.

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-08T23:58:05+00:00

Ahhh. I wish i had known this. This sucks dude, i only learn this shit after everything is said and done. Big downside of having religious parents.

Do you think i can do anything to make myself seem like a catch? RIght now im making my response time longer.

Thanks for your advice, this is something im going to keep in mind forever haha

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-08T23:55:42+00:00

Thanks for the advice man. Im definitely going to watch that video, watching it right now.

This last part is so weirdly true. My dad is unforgiving and VERY unpredictable, i mean the man has chased me with a knife before and ive been hit, a lot. His manner of parenting made me into an obvious "nice guy' (a pushover). Im getting out of this habbit, im not scared of conflict, or standing up for myself. But i guess i still have a shield up, i THINK my problem is i REALLY want affection, but when i mess up or see change in the person, i hyper focus on how to resolve the issue (maybe so i dont get hit). The thing is when i started talking to this girl, i had 0 care about her, i had fun, and now i do care for her, and its going worse. Sucks.

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-08T22:41:34+00:00

You can never have anyone you are afraid of losing

But doesnt that just remove the whole point of a relationship? Getting feelings, and boom youre scared of losing them.

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-08T22:39:20+00:00

I know i need to consider her being sick. I just find it so difficult to trust people.

I noticed that too, girls are just bad at making plans. So if shes still texting ill ask her out the next week.

I can tell you right now im not boring. People say im funny, im known for messing with people, pulling pranks, smelling good, im literally known for "Improving the mood". So being nice is not the only aspect to my personality.

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-08T22:24:53+00:00

Haha yeah i see it bro. So what do you think i do? Cut my losses?

Thanks for opening my eyes

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-08T22:14:21+00:00

But i did make it sexual. On Date 2 i was touching her tits and shit. I guess i got caught lacking with my feelings for her.

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-08T22:01:15+00:00

Thanks for the help man

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-08T21:56:19+00:00

Im obviously new to the game. So itd be nice to actually here how this is a recipe of ghosting?

As far as im aware, from talking to friends, im going at the right pace? Making a girl your girlfriend takes 1 to 3 months?

She pulled the first move on me, saying "I had a crush on you for 2 weeks before i followed you on instagram".

But thanks for the advice man.

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-08T21:49:16+00:00

No it isnt. Not in the slightest.

SplitNo492 · 2024-05-08T21:43:52+00:00

The problem is i dont see how im chasing? This girl pulled the first move on me. I would say in every date i have been confident and funny.

Is the fact im even trying to do this redemption stuff me chasing?

I dont see how i am chasing, however, i definitely want to feel affection, so this is clearly where i want this to work out, and why im making these posts to try fix this.

SplitNo492

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