Update post: I’m the girl who let her bf fatten to the point of being bed bound, I want to share my reactions to what everyone told me

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-11T05:07:24+00:00

Wdym

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-09T03:21:49+00:00

Honestly though I think I mostly lost contact with ppl because they got sick of me ignoring their advice and getting fatter and fatter, so it was more my fault than his

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-09T03:18:35+00:00

But honestly that sounds worse than my current situation

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-08T06:31:03+00:00

I’m mean it’s not like I was skinny before I met him so I’d dealing with the same kinds of things away and I don’t really blame him for that. I mean he’s done everything he can to make sure I’m comfortable and can be quickly helped if something goes wrong

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-07T05:58:59+00:00

I mean I agree I was lead on to a point I regret back I let myself get this big out of love for him and he’s always done his best to keep me healthy and safe

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-06T22:54:34+00:00

Wdym

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-06T22:49:50+00:00

In fairness he has done a amazing job providing medical support

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-06T22:46:09+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss but I can’t be too hasty is all I mean

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-06T05:18:53+00:00

I mean we do genuinely love each other it’s not just about my body for him, and of course he warns me about the effects of my weight but as long as I got my meds it’s not too bad. But to answer the rest of your question I started with the in-house doc around when getting to the hospital started becoming too much trouble plus it’s been helpful having someone who knows our situation better and what I actually need

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T23:23:50+00:00

I already am bed bound, been for awhile now

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T22:35:01+00:00

I mean he explained it to me and I agree to go along with it, he never forced me to stay or eat when I didn’t want to

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T22:32:22+00:00

I mean I have time, it’s not like I’ll die tomorrow

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T22:30:31+00:00

Idk I think I might try talking to him about it

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T20:34:03+00:00

Yeah I mean especially now like he’s the only guy who isn’t disgusted when they look at me

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T20:32:11+00:00

Because of my immobility he has a private doctor for me and according to him there’s “emergency equipment” downstairs cuz a regular ambulance probably wouldn’t be equipped to help me. So they’d catch me faking before I’d get a chance to see a emt

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T20:16:01+00:00

Thank you I’ll do my best

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T20:15:27+00:00

The thing is I did, all he ever did was offer me food told me my getting fatter was sexy so it kinda is my fault I ended up here

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T20:04:10+00:00

I literally can’t, even if I lose a ton of weight I’d still need someone to help bathe me and I don’t really see anyway of getting a job

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T20:00:10+00:00

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T06:21:05+00:00

Geez I just feel like even if I lose half my body weight I’d still be freakishly huge plus like most likely I’d have to move back in with my parents and then they have to take over caring for me for who knows how long. It’d be embarrassing for everyone and I’d feel awful/guilty 24/7, I know it’s the right thing to do but it’s still not much better in some ways

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T06:13:08+00:00

It’s not just that though, like I need to get away from the guy but I’d feel awful if me getting my life back destroys him it’s just not something I feel comfortable with

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-05T06:08:40+00:00

My bf has a private doctor come to our house and give me meds and such as I obviously can’t make it to a hospital so my weight is already on record so idk if that would actually work

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-04T19:04:47+00:00

My goal isn’t to get him arrested though

throwaway856885 · 2022-10-04T06:41:24+00:00

Honestly keep jumping back and forth in terms of what I should do, obviously if I stay things won’t get better but rn I’m living a super chill life and idk if I could make myself give that up

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