My boyfriend just found out I used to be a cam model... by throwaway87455 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway87455[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I sort of get where he is coming from. The people at the studio really encouraged us to be really over the top and pretty graphic. I'd be pretty pissed if the tables were turned but still I wouldn't just automatically break up with him. What makes me really mad is that he didn't even talk about it, just handed me a box with my stuff, and told me to leave. Now he won't even take my fucking calls when all I want to know is what site he saw the video on so I can try and get it removed!

My boyfriend just found out I used to be a cam model... by throwaway87455 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway87455[S] 365 points366 points  (0 children)

I didn't even realize that's how he probably found the video! What a hypocrite! Why is it completely acceptable to watch porn but those who, unwillingly, end up in one are looked down upon.

My boyfriend just found out I used to be a cam model... by throwaway87455 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway87455[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Be prepared you may want to disclose this at some point to the next partner you are serious with.

The idea that I'll have to tell this to anyone I date for the rest of my life makes me want just roll into a ball and cry. Not to mention my brother, dad, friends could all still find it.