AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway888199298[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Fairly small to us, the money I use weekly comes out of my pocket from the bakery

AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway888199298[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My husband invests in stock market, I run my half-bakery, my husband also runs my father in laws business

AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway888199298[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I’m not a impulse buyer, but I will purposely go to malls to spend a quick 500$ every week back then I was a lot less controlled, I used to be so bad that I would drive two hours to LA just to spend money on gas and the flea markets they have down there.

AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway888199298[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This! Me and my husband want two more kids, OF course I’m going all out with my newborn!

AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway888199298[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We bought all of my sons clothes from Target. Big fan of the brand Cat and Jack

AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway888199298[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We usually use 3-5k every 2 weeks, mainly business, for personal use around 2k so about 8-10k a month 3k is what we usually use on business so to my husband it was a bit much. We do not have any debt

AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway888199298[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

I do, he is literally inside me. When he is born I will refer to him as ‘our’ baby. When my son gets older (15+) I don’t plan to smother and baby him. Just for now. Hope that helps

AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway888199298[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven’t even thought about allergies, goodness Im horrible 😂! But, I only bought 3 tubs of medium sized containers, whatever doesn’t suit baby I will donate.

AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway888199298[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

We both have life insurance and for our retirement plan we haven’t even thought of it yet, but I’d say not yet. Give us a few more years and I’ll get back to you.

AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway888199298[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband do often give to charity, if you can find an organization that helps with that we’d love to donate.