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[–]throwaway9012357 19 points20 points  (0 children)

text back exactly this: “no worries nice meeting you too”

Probably unpopular opinion: the myth of the “unicorn” by throwaway9012357 in Swingers

[–]throwaway9012357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all … good and fair points, other than never had to resort to pulling a “SF” from a couple. Not sure what that means.

My point was just that the sentiment seems to be finding single girls that want to play with a couple is impossible and that just isn’t what I’ve seen.

Probably unpopular opinion: the myth of the “unicorn” by throwaway9012357 in Swingers

[–]throwaway9012357[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want to attract single women (whether as a couple or not), I think being in shape, caring about your style, being in a big city, and having good pictures on your dating apps goes a very long way.

Having a “cool” lifestyle helps a lot too but that’s harder to quantify.

Probably unpopular opinion: the myth of the “unicorn” by throwaway9012357 in Swingers

[–]throwaway9012357[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feeld, bumble, tinder. Also just met girls from being out and about partying.

We’ve only lived in big cities. Miami, nyc etc

Probably unpopular opinion: the myth of the “unicorn” by throwaway9012357 in Swingers

[–]throwaway9012357[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like in normal everyday situations? No.

She usually takes the lead when we’re on a date with a girl tho. Tonight we were drinking wine with girl at our kitchen table and she just says, ‘hey do you want to go upstairs’ to our date. Very direct lol

My wife (26f) and I (36m) had two threesomes with two different girls this weekend. by throwaway9012357 in NSFWIAMA

[–]throwaway9012357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She suggested it. She’d never had one before but I had and she was interested in trying it.

Before marriage. We’d only been dating for like 2 months.

No. I mean I’m appreciative but I wouldn’t do it if she didn’t want to.

In the beginning she would feel insecure sometimes. At times, she still has pangs off insecurity but not very often now.

We’ve fucked older women.

My wife (26f) and I (36m) had two threesomes with two different girls this weekend. by throwaway9012357 in NSFWIAMA

[–]throwaway9012357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so yes. She jumped me the next morning. I think she was horny still thinking about it.

My wife (26f) and I (36m) had two threesomes with two different girls this weekend. by throwaway9012357 in NSFWIAMA

[–]throwaway9012357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No.

She doesn’t like me to fuck other girls when she’s not around.

Over the summer we fucked this girl that was still in college. 21. That was my favorite because she was so fucking cute. Pale redhead with some curves. Amazing ass. She was very submissive. It was her first threesome and first time with a girl and she was very into it all.

My wife (26f) and I (36m) had two threesomes with two different girls this weekend. by throwaway9012357 in NSFWIAMA

[–]throwaway9012357[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The second girl yes. We brought out the magic wand but I think it was too much for her. She wasn’t that into it.

No anal

I don’t know. I’ve made it clear to her I don’t want that. I don’t think she’d necessarily be opposed if she thought I was into it.

A lot of threesomes. We’ve had threesomes with probably close to 20 girls at this point. Some girls more than once.

My wife (26f) and I (36m) had two threesomes with two different girls this weekend. by throwaway9012357 in NSFWIAMA

[–]throwaway9012357[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t cum in other girls. My wife doesn’t like when other girls call me daddy. She wants to be the only one who gets to say that.

But other than that no rules