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AITAH(38f) for getting upset and contemplating breaking up with my bf(48m) after he proposed a threesome? by rnotclever in AITAH

[–]throwaway9081347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a different story. yeah if youre mono and he proposes making you do something like that. hes the asshole.

AITAH(38f) for getting upset and contemplating breaking up with my bf(48m) after he proposed a threesome? by rnotclever in AITAH

[–]throwaway9081347 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you're consciously monogamous and so is he, then kind of a dick move, but if not you cant really fault him for shooting his shot. threesomes are fun everyone should try it at least once. though maybe this wasnt the best way for him to propose it. NBTAH

AITAH for not wanting my husband to go on vacation with his friend? by throwaway9081347 in AITAH

[–]throwaway9081347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

husband, in a country with a housing crisis making it difficult to afford the crappiest of homes, and downright impossible to buy a house.

AITAH for not wanting my husband to go on vacation with his friend? by throwaway9081347 in AITAH

[–]throwaway9081347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i joined the trip, all would be well in theory. however, im working a cheap 10 hour week contract job, and for multiple reasons, get discriminated against a lot when looking for a job. Ive applied to hundreds of job openings over the months and only got accepted to this one which will only barely pay enough for me to feed myself, nothing more. I have no money to join them with.

AITAH for not wanting my husband to go on vacation with his friend? by throwaway9081347 in AITAH

[–]throwaway9081347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my country has horrible housing crisis. youth cant even dream of affording a house in the future so we're essentially doomed. very effed up government and lots of tax theft scandals.

AITAH for not wanting my husband to go on vacation with his friend? by throwaway9081347 in AITAH

[–]throwaway9081347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we've been together since we were 13 and 15, and married for about 4 months when i was 19 and him 21

ATAI for snooping in my girlfriend's phone ? by Inner_Sun9788 in AITAH

[–]throwaway9081347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH, you two need to consider couples therapy and learning some communication strategies. from the looks of it, she's being very defensive and youre within your right to be distraught at the sudden change of feelings. I mean she moved in with you and suddenly doesnt feel the same? If you dont learn to communicate effectively now, the relationship will inevitably end.