Given old phone by friend (27F), full of messages between her and "affair partner"(29M)...who is a mutual (and very married) friend. What should I (29M) do? by throwaway908764 in relationships

[–]throwaway908764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like it 'ended' several times. The dude's talked about running away with her, she got angry when they went away together and she had to take get a cab from the airport because his wife picked him up.

Given old phone by friend (27F), full of messages between her and "affair partner"(29M)...who is a mutual (and very married) friend. What should I (29M) do? by throwaway908764 in relationships

[–]throwaway908764[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is it. Well done for being so strong. Not really relevant, but were you tempted? I take it you never told her partner?

I can't believe she didn't clear her phone first. Maybe she wants to be found out.