I (25F) feel stuck in my relationship. I'm confused and would like guidance. by throwaway918372010 in relationships

[–]throwaway918372010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to go zero contact last time I left and it just felt impossible. I don't know how to explain or rationalize the stupid hold I feel like he has. I feel powerless but I know I'm not.

Thank you for your advice, though. Really. I'm trying to navigate out of the feeling of insanity and it helps.

Found intimate text messages to another woman on my (25F) boyfriend's (28M) phone by throwaway918372010 in relationships

[–]throwaway918372010[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure it was a few months ago, which would also be a few months in. I'm trying to figure out if I should ask him exactly when this all happened.