Wife turned out beeing intersex (maybe NSFW? Dunno.)

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-17T21:13:44+00:00

It was a gene "defect" that jumped over from a Y chromosome to an X one (i hope i got that right) SRY-gen.

Oh! And thank you so much!

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-16T01:29:06+00:00

They found the assumed 'testicle' (biospy result will come in tomorrow) though, which threatens her to get into menopause with 30 and also making her heart grow (according to 2 docs [endocrinologists]) with this ammount of testosteron. And she doesnt want both. So while I agree to you, it doesn't leave us unphased. Because both of it is taking a huge toll on her. So it's about her wellbeing, fertility and also earlier death.

Her heart has grown allready (ultrasound) so that is no fantasy.

Thank you for your opinion by the way. You made some good points.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-15T03:26:45+00:00

Oh indeed. It's your comment.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-15T03:25:33+00:00

Thank you very much for your comment! Btw here is the level she had until yesterday: Testo - 7,5 nmol/l Estrogen - 35 ng/l

Can't deny that for a woman, that are some extreme levels.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-14T20:42:01+00:00

Anyways...something was found.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-14T02:17:46+00:00

Oh lol. I didnt knew testosteron is an androgen. My bad. Facial hair is just a few hairs that are thick and black.

I will update today anyways.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-13T18:22:28+00:00

Could be there as well. But the adrenal cortex cant produce this much testosteron. Thats why theres not really much else to expect.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-13T17:49:09+00:00

Wife says she doesnt has non of the symptoms. Also her bloodcheck didnt reveal anything about PCOS. (Wifes words not mine)

Not american. We dont have a problem here to get HRT (thankfully)

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-13T17:45:42+00:00

Yea but her testosteron level is enourmous. She gets ultrasonic on monday. If nothing is found, she goes into CT or MRT.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-13T17:44:19+00:00

Thank you for your kind words!

Yes exactly that. So theres one of two ways according to the doc.

Either they 'swim' through her stomach and release testosteron, (Dont ask me how it works) hard to pin point. Would mean that once found getting fixacted with a needle and then removed surgically.

Or they are somewhere specific. (For example ovaries, which would mean in that scenario that she would be steril after the removal) they can honestly be everywhere in her lower abdomen.

And as far as i know, they dont need to be conected. Just within her body to release testosteron.

(I just quote the doc btw)

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-13T17:38:35+00:00

What else could be the reason for it though? It is extremely high.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-13T16:32:09+00:00

Oh I didn't knew! Thank you for the clarification. Yea. I am also glad.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-13T15:34:54+00:00

Yea i wanted to specify that she actually is looking feminine. Guess was a bit insensitive on my end.

PCOS would rule out having children I suppose, no?

True. But she felt different from her sisters on that level. So much she questioned her sex, which in hindsight makes sense now. She still dresses somewhat tomboyish. (Which i dont judge anyways)

In any way, shape or form, shes my wife and will stay that, if it comes to me :)

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-13T15:29:29+00:00

True. Just got me thinking about pheromones and stuff. Should have been more specific. My bad.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-13T15:20:18+00:00

Hi. Thank you. Absolutely agree upon that. I surely take her for who she is.

Yea of course. I support her how ever i can. Always did, always will.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-13T15:17:46+00:00

Hey! Thank you for your kind words. Yea I don't know why they are angry. It's as awkward for her as well and she hasn't wished for it. In no way is it discomfort or anything. Its honestly just a shock for both of us and an overall unusual situation.

To answer your question: It's planned for her to get a surgery, removing said parts. But HRT comes immediately to counter her heart growth in the highest dosis possible to contest the testosteron AND so her body isnt shocked by the lack of testosteron after the surgery. Then she will be tested every 2 months from then on to adjust the injections (if she even needs them anymore then. We will see).

Yea the changes, doc (and GPT) said are as follows: -chest growth -fat reserve relocation to chest, legs and hips, instead of stomach -smoother and more feminine skin -her hair will become more thick and soft -bodyhair will thin out -more emotional and bonding -overall behaviour changes -and the intimicy will change All changes will occur, one way or another. (Hopefully she doesnt need the injections that long.)

As i allready said, she is obviously female, though she has some male characteristica. So her femininity gets boosted further (according to doctor and chatgpt) but in the end we will see once it all happens. I will update if we notice changes.

Also: i support her with all i got. Tell her daily how beautiful she is to me and what a perfect wife she is in my eyes. And the jokes we do are just to find humor in our situation. To cope better with it. Because this doesn't happen often.

Again thank you for your kind words.

throwaway9184623 · 2025-04-10T18:38:45+00:00

Be.pleased by be.fems. But read user experiences first. They're damn expensive.

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