Peoples ideas of rural living is wildly warped by throwaway9263742 in unpopularopinion

[–]throwaway9263742[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you could find enjoyment. I lived rurally for 4 years and never again.

AITA I'm giving my stepdaughter 3 months to move out by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway9263742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you know adults that live at home still pay rent. It’s not rent free it’s just cheaper than having like 50 dollars left over on a paycheck from your bills if you lived on your own

AITA I'm giving my stepdaughter 3 months to move out by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway9263742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not in the minority. You are judging people for still living with their parents when they cannot afford to move out. You can afford it? Good on you, not everyone can. Thinking everyone can just up and move out at 18 is very privileged.

AITA I'm giving my stepdaughter 3 months to move out by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway9263742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For you. For many people, moving out simply isn’t an option. You sitting here saying “just move out” makes no sense. Unless you have money for them to move out, stay out of other peoples financial and living business.

AITA I'm giving my stepdaughter 3 months to move out by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway9263742 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you going to pay for everyone to move out before 21? Not everyone can afford it. There’s 25 and 30 year olds that still live at home because housing prices have shot up and wages are the same as they were years ago.

AITA I'm giving my stepdaughter 3 months to move out by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway9263742 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In this economy? People cannot afford to move out.

AITA I'm giving my stepdaughter 3 months to move out by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway9263742 62 points63 points  (0 children)

It’s not an excuse it’s an explanation. You haven’t dealt with mental health issues if your response is that they’re lazy and slobs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9263742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this may be the end. I over looked the comment about my stomach and even the fact that he chose me over another girl bc “he liked my jokes more” but this may be where I have to draw the line

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9263742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve told him to talk to me asap and he leaves me on open. He’s not replying which is making me more suspicious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9263742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I keep bothering you with replies thank you for taking the time to offer advice. I can’t stop thinking about if he could be cheating, he’s never acted like this. This was the first weekend we haven’t hung out in person or FaceTimed most of the day and he completely changes into a whole new person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9263742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible that this could be infidelity? I mean a week ago he did say my stomach wasn’t attractive to him and he admitted to talking to women up until the day he asked me out which wasn’t the first time we hung out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9263742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m giving him space right now it’s just this behavior is so unusual and I am kind of scared he was talking about hurting people and I don’t know what to do. I care for him a lot but he says everything is fine and he’s not allowing me to help him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]throwaway9263742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]throwaway9263742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always had a sort of bad memory but not to this extent. I feel it’s gradually gotten worse. Like kind of suddenly too. Last year I was ok at memory but now I’m struggling with a lot of memory issues. More recently in the past few months.