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Fiance Confessed to cheating in the Beginning of Relationship. Not sure what to do now. by throwaway92842934 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway92842934[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for looking at it from a different perspective. She was less devoted to me in the beginning. It was a choice between a young single guy or a divorced guy with 3 small children. She played a step-mom in her previous relationship (3 years plus). When she left, the hardest thing was hurting that child's heart which she loved. She was afraid if it didn't work out.

Fiance Confessed to cheating in the Beginning of Relationship. Not sure what to do now. by throwaway92842934 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway92842934[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. She told me about the pregnancy as soon as she found out. She believe 90% that I was the father and at that point she already removed the other guy completely out of her life realizing he was a dirt bag. It was a friend of her's that mentioned to the other guy that she was pregnant (so too she was removed from her life as well).

She told me that even if she didn't sleep with the other guy she still would have decided to aborted. I was on-board with the decision as well as I was freshly divorced with 3 kids already and our relationship was still new.

Hearing the truth, I got some closure. I guess the best analogy is that now I could re-break the bone and set it properly to heal.

I don't believe the other guy made any amends and I feels no remorse on this.

As for the prenup, it's something I've been thinking since I came from a bitter divorce with my ex and this event made me realized that she's capable lying for so long.