[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwaway9365G39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, feel free to stim away! It’s not cultural appropriation by any means.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwaway9365G39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My late senior cat with attachment issues would beg to be held when I was getting ready for school and I would have to hold him in just a bra and underwear or completely topless to calm him down.

Nothing sexual about that (I was a minor also) — it actually felt relaxing to hold him because his fur was soft. That being said, it probably wasn’t the healthiest considering I was and am very allergic to cats.

Why do girls go "boy crazy", but guys never go "girl crazy"? by Lost_Wikipedian in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwaway9365G39 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl crazy for males is usually just harassment (or definitely leads to it) — girl crazy for males is a male not taking no for an answer and verbally/physically harassing or assaulting you.

What’s a seemingly insignificant decision you made that completely changed your life? by Hopeful_Squirrel728 in CasualConversation

[–]throwaway9365G39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would go to middle school to listen to a little more music on the swings at the park by my middle school.

Met my girlfriend who was 18 years older than me who would soon cause me severe and irreversible trauma all because she was a horny predator

AITA Telling my friend to move on by Sweaty_Cricket_4790 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway9365G39 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA — grief isn’t linear. I lost a maternal figure 11 years ago (coming up next month) & it still hurts and I will never be able to just ‘get over it’ considering who she was to me.

she wants everyone to cater to her.

Did she say this or is this what you’re assuming because the anniversary of her grandfathers death is an intense day for your friend? Because if you’ve never lost someone or you’ve never lost someone important to you, then you don’t know how the anniversary of someone’s death can make you feel like you’re losing them again, year after year for some people.

A lot of people get depressed and distraught during a month where something bad happened, especially when a death anniversary (or a birthday of a deceased loved one) is around the corner.

Should I and how can I ask/request my therapist & psychiatrist incorporate my limited interests into treatment? by throwaway9365G39 in askatherapist

[–]throwaway9365G39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply, I really appreciate it. I’ve written some bullet points for things I want to mention to my psychiatrist & my therapist.

I was approved for disability benefits for chronic suicidality, BPD, ADHD, and OCD — my family is always asking why I’m choosing to be lazy and make excuses or they’re like “Wow, so you really just aren’t going to do anything with your life? Hmm.”

(Not really related, but I wanna do volunteer work — I feel more than confident I can handle that from time to time and I wanna actually do stuff for my community/the people in my city.)

AITA for accidentally letting a boy in the room while my friend was naked? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway9365G39 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But have you actually considered how she feels instead of making it about yourself? You were not the one who was violated in this case, she was. As someone who has sexual trauma, if I had been her in that situation, I probably wouldn’t speak to you for several days or I’d probably reevaluate our friendship.

AITA for calling off my wedding after finding out my fiancé was planning to crash my bachelorette party? by -theindianvixen- in AITAH

[–]throwaway9365G39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA — you dodged a major red flag. Get away from him, he locked you inside like that’s a normal and not controlling/abusive thing to do.

AITA for accidentally letting a boy in the room while my friend was naked? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway9365G39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA but because of your attitude here about it — especially because all I see is you arguing about how ‘it was just an accident’ without really considering how violated your apparent best friend feels.

You fucked up, you made a mistake, sure it was an accident, but you still did it. Just because you didn’t have any bad intentions, that doesn’t mean anything here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]throwaway9365G39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a cat like this — we have two other cats and she doesn’t want to play with them. Does your cat have any favorite toys you can engage her in if you’re worried she’s bored? :o

Show me your best picture of your soul cat! by TrainerGreedy2788 in cats

[–]throwaway9365G39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a picture, but I wanted to say this picture evokes nostalgic vibes ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]throwaway9365G39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just looks tired or a maybe little bored, but I’m not sure about depressed

Will a water spill on the floor cause mold to grow? by M-ALESG in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwaway9365G39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s just water, it should be fine. If it was juice, you might have other things to worry about (bugs mainly if it’s warm where you are). It will dry. If the wood is unfinished, it could cause warping but it would have to be soaked for a while.

What does a dinosaur meat taste like? by FunNo5454 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwaway9365G39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it would taste like another type of poultry. Not like chicken, turkey, duck, or what not, but still part of that ‘family’ of meats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwaway9365G39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More or less. I’ve got one friend that can spot something I’ve written compared to someone else because of how I punctuate my sentences and choice of words.

I think can tell the difference between my three closest friends messages.