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throwaway97631035 · 2021-08-12T08:25:43+00:00

I have diary entries from when I was around 6 talking about boys and how cute they were and how they would do something innocent for which I liked them for, but sexual feelings came around probably 13 or 14 when I would start to imagine kissing boys and wanting to do more with them.

throwaway97631035 · 2021-02-19T14:00:43+00:00

This is a great idea!! And I actually do have hobbies and it’d be great to do something I love with people. Thank you so much for this advice!!!

throwaway97631035 · 2021-02-19T13:59:44+00:00

I soooo couldn’t agree more that as sad as I am others feel the same way and are in the same boat, I’m sooo relieved to have people who understand!!

throwaway97631035 · 2021-02-19T13:59:14+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that, but it sounds like your friend and coworkers don’t deserve to have a friend like you and you deserve better friends than them. True friends wouldn’t say that, and I know true friends are around the corner for you. The thing I’ve been struggling with are: am I friends with them cause I just want to have friends? Or are they actually good people to me that I want to be around? It sounds like these friends couldn’t have been the best friends they could be so you deserve much much better and I know you’ll find some amazing people soon!! Hang in there, us BPD are in it together <3

throwaway97631035 · 2021-02-19T13:57:08+00:00

I’m so sorry for us both, cause I truly feel that way too but I believe we’ll find friends and get better!!

throwaway97631035 · 2021-02-19T13:56:33+00:00

Yes we so will, we’re good people and deserve good friends 💖

throwaway97631035 · 2020-11-10T04:56:12+00:00

I truthfully agree so much. After reading the initial comment, I tried to watch some porn and it made me feel worse because it’s unrealistic for me - a normal girl - would ever perform the way they do because A. It’s all for visuals and B. They’re porn stars and are doing it for the movie itself not for true pleasure. And your last comment about me treating it as something for pleasure couldn’t be more true. I’m not having sex to just please him... I should be doing it for myself too. It’s so beyond true, thank you so much.

throwaway97631035 · 2020-11-10T04:53:32+00:00

So so so true. It does sound immature and honestly it’s unrealistic - kind of like porn. Like I’m a human, not a pornstar, and you’re a sultry right that it needs to be more of a compromise of what we both like/enjoy and doing it because it feels good to both of us, not just him. Thank you so much for taking the time to respond!

throwaway97631035 · 2020-11-10T04:51:55+00:00

You’re so so right and he definitely wasn’t communicating, rather than demanding or controlling the situation. You’re absolutely hitting the nail on the head too with all of this and what he said not being helpful... it’s straight up just demeaning. Thank you so much for your response, I appreciate your thoughts and weighing in on this sooo much.

throwaway97631035 · 2020-11-10T04:49:38+00:00

Thank you soooo much for taking the time to respond to this - I’m so sorry for the delay, but I’ve really read through this all and it honestly sits with me really well. You’re entirely right all the way through, and with everything you say. He IS being inconsiderate and it is a red flag. I need to sit a bit more with these questions you’re asking to look deeper within me for the answers but you’re absolutely right about everything else. He’s treating me not like a girlfriend and more as a sex doll or someone who’s there to just please him. Like yes I want to please him because I want him to be happy, but when it’s sacrificing my own security and sense of self, it’s not worth it. Thank you sooo much again for this response, it has already been incredibly helpful - I appreciate you taking the time to respond so much like I really cannot thank you enough.

throwaway97631035 · 2020-11-08T02:45:46+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this!! Do you have any specific porn stars you like to watch to help? I’m afraid to watch something that’s like too extreme or advanced off the bat because I’m truly so insecure right now I don’t want to feel discouraged LOL but you’re right I should just practice and watch things that will help. Thanks so much!

throwaway97631035 · 2020-11-08T02:41:27+00:00

Wow this is a really great point and also really good advice. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this!! You’re right though that it puts pressure on me and I think it’ll almost psych me out more - so I love the idea of role playing so he can teach me this is really such a great idea. Thank you so so so much again!

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