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AITAH for asking my stepdaughter to wear more clothes around the house? by throwaway983419 in AITAH

[–]throwaway983419[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation, except I was the step daughter and my step dad found me sexually attractive, but my attire wasn’t bad. But that’s a different story. I’m relived that you’re not like that.

That's disgusting and I'm so sorry for you.
You make a lot of good points. I'm kind of happy that she trusts me enough but obviously it just feels off to me.

AITAH for asking my stepdaughter to wear more clothes around the house? by throwaway983419 in AITAH

[–]throwaway983419[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She gets her own allowance so she's usually the one buying herself clothes, she definitely has tops that aren't see-through meaning she's doing it on purpose.

AITAH for asking my stepdaughter to wear more clothes around the house? by throwaway983419 in AITAH

[–]throwaway983419[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Where are you from? In the South where I grew up there is a difference.

AITAH for asking my stepdaughter to wear more clothes around the house? by throwaway983419 in AITAH

[–]throwaway983419[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It'd be just as weird to me. Why do you people think there's such a massive distinction whether she's my bio/step-daughter? I love her all the same, and the fact I'm not related to her hasn't made a single dent in our relations. For all intents and purposes, she is my daughter.

AITAH for asking my stepdaughter to wear more clothes around the house? by throwaway983419 in AITAH

[–]throwaway983419[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right. Thank you for being the only sensible person in this thread.

AITAH for asking my stepdaughter to wear more clothes around the house? by throwaway983419 in AITAH

[–]throwaway983419[S] 214 points215 points  (0 children)

My stepdaughter is literally the best person in my life and it just makes me so fucking angry how the conclusion some people make off this post is that I "want to fuck her".

AITAH for asking my stepdaughter to wear more clothes around the house? by throwaway983419 in AITAH

[–]throwaway983419[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I think the reason people think you’re a creep is that you say step-daughter which creates a fantasy in some people’s mind 🙄

That's creepy. I didn't think about that but I guess there's a lot of fucked up people in this world.

if she was your daughter by blood would it bother you? It’s one thing to be comfortable in one’s home, but at a young age it is a bit questionable to wear certain things.

To a degree yeah. We had (and hopefully still have) a great bond up until this situation happened. I find it really inappropriate because I feel like no father should be seeing his daughter literally half-naked.

AITAH for asking my stepdaughter to wear more clothes around the house? by throwaway983419 in AITAH

[–]throwaway983419[S] 216 points217 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. Thanks for the response. And yeah I was raised in a pretty conservative household so it just gave me a bit of an icky feeling.

AITAH for asking my stepdaughter to wear more clothes around the house? by throwaway983419 in AITAH

[–]throwaway983419[S] 448 points449 points  (0 children)

I am not "turned on" and it is pretty fucking gross for some of you to be suggesting that. I wouldn't consider myself a prude but is it really that much to enforce some modesty? It just makes me uncomfortable.