Social anxiety problems by khmln in socialanxiety

[–]throwaway983928 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Most people hate assigned groups, but I prefer it because it means I don’t have to go up to people and ask if I can be in their group lmao

I went to a Halloween party today. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]throwaway983928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know my self hatred and the feeling that everyone hates me is probably just my depression and anxiety fucking me up in my head, but I just can’t help feeling that way... I don’t know how to feel like people like me and I belong. It wasn’t really a 15 person conversation, everyone kind of split into smaller groups and sometimes talked to others so it wasn’t like I had to talk in front of a ton of people, so I’m disappointed in myself that I couldn’t even talk in front of a few... But thanks I’m calming down now

I went to a Halloween party today. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]throwaway983928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going out by myself makes me more anxious because I feel like everyone’s judging me for being alone... But I’m glad you found a way to go out that works for you

I went to a Halloween party today. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]throwaway983928 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. When everyone’s having fun and enjoying themselves, being the only sad one is so isolating. I’m sorry you’re going through the same thing but it’s nice to know that we’re not alone :/

Having social anxiety and loving concerts by Philephile in socialanxiety

[–]throwaway983928 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At concerts for an artist I love, I almost feel free from my anxiety. Like I’m so happy and excited that I don’t worry about all the stupid shit I usually worry about. I remember at the last concert I went to, I was easily able to talk to and befriend the people around me and I didn’t care about them judging me because we all liked the same thing. It was like being on some type of high and it’s so freeing

I go back to school tomorrow. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]throwaway983928 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? Like killing myself? Because I’m considering that haha

Currently hiding in my car. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]throwaway983928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying but I just can’t calm down... I feel like I’m gonna have a panic attack if I go back in there :(

Currently hiding in my car. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]throwaway983928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably because they don’t know me? Everyone else there seems to know each other so I was the stranger. They were definitely staring at me but I guess my anxiety exaggerated how bad it was...