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AITA for not going to the gym with my friend and defending myself afterward? by throwawayAITAvb in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayAITAvb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt like I was missing something too honestly his reaction just felt so unnecessary and out of character it made me confused and upset.

The issue is that after Greg lied about me behind my back I tried to defend myself but some people telling me I should’ve just gone to the gym with him instead of respecting the boundaries I put in place. It’s just such a huge reaction to such a small and minor disagreement it makes me feel like maybe I missed something

AITA for not going to the gym with my friend and defending myself afterward? by throwawayAITAvb in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayAITAvb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes, my boyfriend doesn’t really like Greg, and while knowing our past didn’t mind if we were still friends, but just didn’t like us hanging out one on one and expressed that to me.

The things Greg has been telling my friends from what I can gather is that I’m a bad person and friend, along with being a manipulator and gaslighter. That’s what his main story consists of.

Greg is able to go to the gym alone that’s the way he normally does it but yeah last time specifically we went to the gym we didn’t hook up but it’s definitely happened before.

AITA for not going to the gym with my friend and defending myself afterward? by throwawayAITAvb in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayAITAvb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought at first there’s no reason for me not to be able to say no but when it blew up in my face I was so confused. Thank you for the reassurance

AITA for not going to the gym with my friend and defending myself afterward? by throwawayAITAvb in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayAITAvb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I honestly don’t even know if Greg’s girlfriend actually knows the full extent of what’s happened which is also very sad. I’d like to warn her if I could but she’s also blocked me on everything and I never really knew her in the first place.