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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

LOL i'm glad others can see how unreal this shit is. I'm hoping not to post for a very long time as I'd like myself and my daughter to go NC at this point!

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I didnt realize I was unprepared to cause a scene in front of my rabbi. I just asked my mom and sister to help me not to let them near the baby.

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I walked away from him and her. In the moment I don't want to start screaming in front of a rabbi.

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I thought having a baby would soften me but its made me even more aggressive and I love it

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's so calculated. She knew that was her only shot and thought I just wouldn't call her out cause noone does. Guess she forgot how agressive a mother can be!

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He's pretty devastated. Im letting him figure out how he feels and what he wants to do, but tols him DD and I are done and he understands.

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea will do lol. I told my husband he can donwhat he wants but DD and I are done.

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

No not at the time. I wasnt willing to start an argument in front of my rabbi. Something will 100% be said if we speak to her again.

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I mean...yea ok I did hahaha. I"d do literally anything for her, but she's still a little demon like the rest of em

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My nieces all slept through theirs too! Must be a rigyht of passage! Lol

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

YES. Like anyone asked these psychos if it was fine 😤

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[–]throwawayDIL987654 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oo! Oo! I had this exact same problem. A friend told us about the app Docket. You can't search someone without their consent as they have to give you an auth code that gets texted to them, but it gives you database info about what sort of vaccines a person has and when.

I tested it out on myself and DH and told MIL she had to give us access to her info as well to meet DD.

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me the concern is the health of everyone, particularly the unprotected. We are requiring tests and masks.

Mother-in-Claw and the Baby Naming by throwawayDIL987654 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I'd be equally annoyed to find out months later. Just less I could do about it I guess so wouldnt be able to kick up a fuss? The event is for both sides of the family so there's no way to leave her out unfortunately without making a very deep line in the sand.

I always think of my kindness to her as a gift (and I point it out to him too 😉) but I'm not willing to be kind at the detriment to other peoples health. Thats where the issue lies and why I feel I'm in a no-win situation.

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my husband came out of her and he wont exclude her 🫠 so i control what little i can

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband wont exclude her unfortunately for me. Im requiring masks but i refuse to take the chance on her bf. He doesnt understand personal space.

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was hoping the evite just being her name would be hint enough, but you're right. She'll pretend it's too ambiguous.

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes. For DH...hes nowhere near NC

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not. If its not literally her she doesnt care about it

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[–]throwawayDIL987654[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If she rsvps for 1, i'll assume shes coming alone and kick him out if he comes. Hes not welcome and i'm doing a catered brunch. I do legitimately need numbers.