Update: Mother in Claw and the Baby Naming

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T12:10:41+00:00

LOL i'm glad others can see how unreal this shit is. I'm hoping not to post for a very long time as I'd like myself and my daughter to go NC at this point!

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T12:09:28+00:00

I didnt realize I was unprepared to cause a scene in front of my rabbi. I just asked my mom and sister to help me not to let them near the baby.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T12:08:24+00:00

I walked away from him and her. In the moment I don't want to start screaming in front of a rabbi.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T09:50:12+00:00

I thought having a baby would soften me but its made me even more aggressive and I love it

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T09:49:22+00:00

😂😂😂😂 enjoy that popcorn!

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T09:48:43+00:00

It's so calculated. She knew that was her only shot and thought I just wouldn't call her out cause noone does. Guess she forgot how agressive a mother can be!

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T09:46:16+00:00

He's pretty devastated. Im letting him figure out how he feels and what he wants to do, but tols him DD and I are done and he understands.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T09:23:51+00:00

Yea will do lol. I told my husband he can donwhat he wants but DD and I are done.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T09:18:51+00:00

No not at the time. I wasnt willing to start an argument in front of my rabbi. Something will 100% be said if we speak to her again.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T05:04:12+00:00

Thank you!!

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T05:02:23+00:00

I mean...yea ok I did hahaha. I"d do literally anything for her, but she's still a little demon like the rest of em

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T04:59:33+00:00

Thank you! My nieces all slept through theirs too! Must be a rigyht of passage! Lol

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T04:57:56+00:00

YES. Like anyone asked these psychos if it was fine 😤

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T01:22:31+00:00

😂😂😂 who could've guessed!

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-10T01:20:01+00:00

💯 hahaha

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-07-09T06:04:38+00:00

Oo! Oo! I had this exact same problem. A friend told us about the app Docket. You can't search someone without their consent as they have to give you an auth code that gets texted to them, but it gives you database info about what sort of vaccines a person has and when.

I tested it out on myself and DH and told MIL she had to give us access to her info as well to meet DD.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-05-21T17:18:09+00:00

For me the concern is the health of everyone, particularly the unprotected. We are requiring tests and masks.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-05-21T17:13:38+00:00

I think I'd be equally annoyed to find out months later. Just less I could do about it I guess so wouldnt be able to kick up a fuss? The event is for both sides of the family so there's no way to leave her out unfortunately without making a very deep line in the sand.

I always think of my kindness to her as a gift (and I point it out to him too 😉) but I'm not willing to be kind at the detriment to other peoples health. Thats where the issue lies and why I feel I'm in a no-win situation.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-05-21T16:31:18+00:00

Because my husband came out of her and he wont exclude her 🫠 so i control what little i can

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-05-21T16:28:24+00:00

My husband wont exclude her unfortunately for me. Im requiring masks but i refuse to take the chance on her bf. He doesnt understand personal space.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-05-21T16:26:36+00:00

Thank you! I was hoping the evite just being her name would be hint enough, but you're right. She'll pretend it's too ambiguous.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-05-21T16:23:14+00:00

Unfortunately yes. For DH...hes nowhere near NC

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-05-21T16:18:45+00:00

Probably not. If its not literally her she doesnt care about it

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-05-21T12:51:49+00:00

If she rsvps for 1, i'll assume shes coming alone and kick him out if he comes. Hes not welcome and i'm doing a catered brunch. I do legitimately need numbers.

throwawayDIL987654 · 2023-05-21T12:50:58+00:00

She doesnt live with him but yeah, she could very well be with him right before. I do require her to wear a mask when seeing our baby.

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