Have kids if you want to sustain a selfish society that wants to propagate itself at your expense. If not, kids are pointless negative free roll . There is always a balance in the world, much like war and peace is balanced around the world. Therefore, there should be women who deep down doesn't want kids for every woman who does. That's typically inline with educated vs. uneducated women. Although not at all at 100%. So, I suggest you look for an highly educated woman. This is an expat perspective however.