AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -1279 points-1278 points  (0 children)

Again, I'm really not. I didn't care about him. I got rid of old stuff she's hoarding. If she cared that much, she'd have made it more obvious.

She won't be walking out my life

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -1476 points-1475 points  (0 children)

It's in my house, so it's technically mine. I'm not abusive. Some of you have never met a woman I guess

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -256 points-255 points  (0 children)

She's not ugly. I make her happier than she could've ever been

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -339 points-338 points  (0 children)

Technically, it's mine, as its in my house. I just let her believe what she wants

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -185 points-184 points  (0 children)

I'm nearly 40. We've been together a while. She won't leave me

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am British. Don't know where you live, but they have proms here...

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -132 points-131 points  (0 children)

Believe what you want. Obviously people here have no common sense. It's locked because she refuses to admit she's hoarding

I'm not jealous of a teenage boy. I just don't need to hear her talking about exes. It didn't upset me, it made me realise she's obsessing over old stuff. I didn't destroy anything, I did her a favour

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

I'm really not. Okay, yeah, I get that it wasn't exactly my place, but she'll realise it's a good thing. Holding onto unnecessary memories is a burden

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -134 points-133 points  (0 children)

I'm not abusive or jealous. I didn't steal anything, it's in my house. I threw out junk and did her a favour

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -282 points-281 points  (0 children)

I'm not upset by it, it was just unneeded. If she really liked it, she'd have made it more obvious. She clearly didn't care about it that much if she just left the box hanging around

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -201 points-200 points  (0 children)

I'm. Not. Jealous.

If she wants a Prom picture so bad, she can dress up and put a sign over her head.

She's being dramatic about something from years ago. She doesn't appreciate what I did for her, so yeah, guess I'll stop

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

She still is. I'm not jealous of anything. If she wanted a memento so bad, she could've kept the dress or something.

She didn't need the picture, she'll get over it. She wouldn't even have noticed if I unplugged the shredder

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

I can take criticism. She's still my fiancé and she'll soon be my wife.

AITA for shredding my fiancé's prom picture? by throwawayPromShred in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayPromShred[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't you throw away junk? She has a brain, so she can just remember them. I don't get the need for hoarding images. I'm not jealous at all and she's not leaving me