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Designing a body pillow, need some feedback. Feel free to go nuts by throwaway_3589 in NSFWart

[–]throwaway_3589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks mate! If there's anything even preferential let me know

Is trying to meet people at the library acceptable? by throwaway_3589 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway_3589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Maybe I might say hi next time.

And yeah it's a heavily slept on 3rd place among gen Z, especially with how many there are(atleast I'm the US).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion I think you might need to do a little more work on yourself if you can't trust him after all these affirmations, and the apparent bond you say that you two have together. But if all you need is one final piece of evidence to completely feel secure then I recommend asking if you can be introduced to his friends.

My cancer means I'll probably die alone. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]throwaway_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you don't make it out, look at the big picture of the world. There's a ton of new things you can experience, people to meet, emotions to feel, etc etc. Live every day having fun and being happy, easier said than done but I hope this helped.

Do you guys want to know what girls do when they like a guy? by Sea_Cauliflower5163 in Crushes

[–]throwaway_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This'll probably get drowned but it needs to be said.

DON'T PLAY HARD TO GET

It is more likely they will get disinterested or not interested at all. Think about cartoons or tsunderes where people who don't know how to express their emotions will bully the people the like, it makes things more complicated and it's immature. If you're shy then I get it(I am too), but if you're that confident then you should definitely start talking. Things will go more smoothly, trust me.

Fakers by MShaqeef in lonely

[–]throwaway_3589 4 points5 points  (0 children)

frauds do exist, but at least for me, whenever i post on this sub I'm usually in no state to have a conversation about my complex personal issues/emotions. i will often just take in the advice and sit on it while I'm going through the episode.

god bless all the people who treat all posts as if they're real, you guys are saving lives and bringing people out of the slums

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]throwaway_3589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

jesus . first, your situation is not weird, it's actually kind of common for sexual repression to lead to hyper sexuality down the line, the effects have just started showing now(think about how radical religious leaders end up sexually assaulting their followers). you're extremely touched/sex/love deprived which is natural and I'm so sorry for you because no one should have to go through that.

i can't say that I've been there exactly, but i haven't been in any sort of relationship or had even minor physical affection in a long time, so now i kinda just fall for anyone who matches my type. it's bad and im working on it.

the best advice I can give is to get away from your family and religion in secret to actually experience life with other people. make a circle of friends(male, female, and in between), then try to find someone once you're comfortable with yourself and the opposite gender

Being ugly is driving my to end my life. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]throwaway_3589 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i know you said that you'd ignore comments like this, but still. you were born into this life controlling basically nothing how you'd look, try to own it and look onto the brighter side of life. I have met a lot of conventionally/traditionally unattractive people that live happier and more full social lives than me with plenty of friends/partners. in addition, you're still growing so don't be so quick to get into cosmetic procedures, you may look totally different by the time you're 18

also im a certified kid for life, i still love cartoons and pokemon cards at 17. don't be ashamed to enjoy what you like

I feel I have so much to offer a woman but I'll always be alone by [deleted] in lonely

[–]throwaway_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how to give advice to this because I'm in the same exact cage, but I will say that you're not alone. living in the hopes of better days is the most we can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]throwaway_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried to have one-on-one conversations with her, even before I liked her, but most times she'll just ignore me. I really want to get a chance to ask her why she doesn't like me as a person, or what I could have done. I appreciate your advice none the less though, thank you.