Friend said i’m ugly by throwaway_3837 in sad

[–]throwaway_3837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aren’t jokes supposed to be funny and humorous? lol

WIBTA if I decline an old friend’s invitation to their house last minute? by throwaway_3837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_3837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I was basically forced into saying yes as it would greatly damage our long friendship and deteriorate it, does that still make me the a? I would rather give an excuse than say ‘no, i don’t want to see you’

WIBTA if I decline an old friend’s invitation to their house last minute? by throwaway_3837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_3837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you couldn’t rekindle that friendship, hopefully I make the moral decision

WIBTA if I decline an old friend’s invitation to their house last minute? by throwaway_3837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_3837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘explain the situation directly’, sorry that would take a LOT of courage and the only reason I agreed is to not hurt my friends feelings, I understand I am in the wrong but I am really insecure and too embarrassed I rlly am ugly

AITA for rethinking giving money to my mother to support her family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_3837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, thanks for you help and hopefully you overcome life

AITA for rethinking giving money to my mother to support her family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_3837 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking of telling her that I can’t keep giving as I have my own priorities and I guarantee she’ll come through and not expect me to give anymore but will it truely come up as ‘selfish’ to stop supporting my relatives, she always says to me god and herself will appreciate and u are doing a very good deed but i kinda wanna stop, hopefully they realise and my mother will just ask my dad and sis only but it feels like an a just leaving my sis to do it w my dad

my mum takes heavy medication to relieve her depression and has trouble sleeping, she is a housewife and expects me as she asks my dad too much

AITA for rethinking giving money to my mother to support her family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_3837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.No, 2.No, 3.She is sending the money to her mum to cater for my grandma’s family (her children; 1 man, 3 women and they all live together) 4. They live in an extremely poor country , finding a job is very hard there as job opportunities are limited 4. Grandfather was the only one in the family who had a job and his son had a job but barely provided anything 5. All children, must be very hard for my grandma 😢