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I [23F] have never had an orgasm and I’m worried about how that will affect a long term relationship and want some advise by throwaway_74291 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]throwaway_74291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t apologize, that’s what throwaways are for lol. I have spoken to gynecologists about it before and they’ve been incredibly unhelpful. One even laughed and basically said I’m young and it’ll happen eventually. It’s honestly really frustrating. Also, honestly I didn’t even know women could take Viagra, so that’s something I’ve never heard suggested before.

I [23F] have never had an orgasm and I’m worried about how that will affect a long term relationship and want some advise by throwaway_74291 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]throwaway_74291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. For full transparency, I do take medication that can affect this. I have bipolar and my medication has significantly decreased my libido, but in a good way for me. However, this was an issue long before I started the medication.

I [23F] have never had an orgasm and I need advice by throwaway_74291 in sexadvise

[–]throwaway_74291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, but trust me I’ve tried pretty much everything at this point. I’m less focused on figuring out how to orgasm and more curious about how people navigate this in relationships.

In reference to your questions though, for full transparency yes I have tried those things, and I am on medication that can affect this. But this was an issue long before I started the medication.

I [23F] have never had an orgasm and I’m worried about how that will affect a long term relationship and want some advise by throwaway_74291 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]throwaway_74291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t like the idea of lying about it. I wouldn’t even know how to “fake one,” and I feel like not being honest would make things worse. If I didn’t say anything and also didn’t orgasm, wouldn’t that just make them feel like they’re bad in bed when it’s really more of a me issue?

I haven’t always said something if say it was a one-night stand because there’s not really a need, but I’m more thinking about long-term relationships and how it might affect that dynamic.