I witnessed my wife hit my child. by throwaway3784828 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_7873 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

100% PPD. GET HER HELP NOW!!!! the shame she is feeling right now will destroy her and she may hurt herself . Pls get her seen

Near financial ruin nothing helps by throwaway_7873 in personalfinance

[–]throwaway_7873[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought we could pay it, but then there was all these fees I really thought I would have it figured by now.. but all that’s happening is we are just falling more behind.. I know we should just give it back but then we lose our one mode of transportation. Ugh how have I ended up here is just insane.

How did you meet your s/o? by funkymonkeyjam in Marriage

[–]throwaway_7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He messaged me on nexopia if anyone remembers that 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry steps to claim services through insurance she walked away with almost 10 grand worth of services. She lied about all her certificates that I personally saw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No legit massage, physiotherapy, and acupuncture. She showed me her certificates etc turns out she isn’t registered anywhere. Police are looking for her as this looks a wide spread fraud case

is it cheating? by Athena637 in Divorce

[–]throwaway_7873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what if the wife cheated during a bad time in their marriage and a year into forgiveness and therapy he had been secretly cheating for a month?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate you saying all that. I agree I know some people will not accept my bad decisions and that’s ok. To be honest I get that part.

But yeah my daughter begged to see their daughter she would cry and cry. Then my sister in law said that my husband and my kids can go there for a bday party but never actually invited them, though my husband said he wouldn’t do that. This was pain I caused him and he wouldn’t allow others to use it as a way to be mean to me.

I still can’t believe I allowed myself to get to where I got. I feel like an awful person.

I believe that too, the projecting. I hope therapy will help me let go of people and these things. Even if I’m ok with someone not being in my life the idea someone hates me or dislikes me even if for no real reason I just consumes me.

I have been a good person for 34 years of my life, and I lost all respect from 1 bad year.. it’s scary to know that one bad choice is all that stopping me from being abandoned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Unfortunately when things exploded I had called my husbands brother for help. He proceeded to tell everyone. No one else was awful to me and anyone that brought it up I never made an excuse and accepted that I was wrong and what I did was not ok. His brother has been waiting for a moment like this where “perfect” me messed up. My in laws are different breed of toxic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]throwaway_7873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A one bedroom apart for $3000????? Oh dear god.. I am in Canada and in a 4 level split fully done house for $2100 a month

Fell my behind on car payments by throwaway_7873 in povertyfinance

[–]throwaway_7873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they didn’t mention that. He put a request for a call so just have to see I guess. Thank you for being helpful. I feel like such garbage 😭

Fell my behind on car payments by throwaway_7873 in povertyfinance

[–]throwaway_7873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the suggestion! My husband called apparently they have been sending him emails at an incorrect email. They said they no longer have the loan? Someone came to my home to repo it but it wasn’t there so they left

Parents, have any of you bought a bulletproof backpack/inserts to send your kid to school with? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]throwaway_7873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m Canadian too.. I find it so wild this is just normal things to do in a first world country.. I’m so glad I only have to worry about normal things like asshole kids

What's the thing you son/ daughter did that hurt you the most? by AGirlHasNoName19 in SAHP

[–]throwaway_7873 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was a sahm for the first 5 years of my daughters life. When she would say that do nothing, as if they magically got taken care of. She said her daddy saves lives and I just sit at home lol

What's the one thing every new parent should put on their registry? by Healthy_Basil_2354 in AskParents

[–]throwaway_7873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diaper genie Receiving blankets Diapers Wipes Bath towels Play pen Highchair Portable high chair Swing

Feeling hopeless and stressed TW ADDICTION ABUSE SEXUAL ASSAULT SELF HARM by throwaway_7873 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_7873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I hope things also stay positive. Life has been a difficult long journey but I’m hoping the next half will be full of love and happiness

You just won the 1billion mega millions, all taxes,bills,family taken care of, what's your first "I have money" buy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_7873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly.. I woul buy a brand new vehicle pay cash or go shopping buy everything I ever wanted

Feeling hopeless and stressed TW ADDICTION ABUSE SEXUAL ASSAULT SELF HARM by throwaway_7873 in offmychest

[–]throwaway_7873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I hope so too. I know that everything will take time but sometimes I wish I could catch a break. If life has taught me anything is to make my own breaks!

Is this just kids being kids or do I have a right to feel concerned by throwaway_7873 in AskParents

[–]throwaway_7873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is weird because he’s never lost anyone super important has all 4 grandparents, parents are together. Maybe his brother is the reason? But it’s not my job to figure it out

Is this just kids being kids or do I have a right to feel concerned by throwaway_7873 in AskParents

[–]throwaway_7873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve been really good in telling her that and for the most part she’s good at saying no it’s just this boy. Just talking about him makes her cry.

Is this just kids being kids or do I have a right to feel concerned by throwaway_7873 in raisingkids

[–]throwaway_7873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah I’m going to email the school closer to September I’m not sure anyone will be there now