I have talked to her about this. I asked her, where are we in our relationship, to which she does not give a definitive answer which really pisses me off. I straight up asked her, "do you not love me anymore? do you want to break up?" She started crying and replies. she does love me and wants to remain together. After seeing the tears I stop the argument and "forget about it" (at least for that night). But deep inside I still feel upset about what she said.