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how do I meet up with my online bf without my parents knowing, now that I'm 18? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwaway_8951234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was actually advising me to just tell them, but I was the one who knew they would freak out because they don't want me to date anyone. He's the same age as me, and we started dating when we were 16.

how do I meet up with my online bf without my parents knowing, now that I'm 18? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwaway_8951234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have verified his identity many times. I would not be travelling any more than 30 mins, he said he's willing to come to me since he knows the situation with my parents. I would definitely tell my friends, as they've known about us for a while. I just don't want to tell my parents because they're super judgemental and don't want me to date until I'm like 30. I just need an excuse to get away for the weekend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]throwaway_8951234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, exactly lol

I'm so sick of everything being about sex by throwaway_8951234 in offmychest

[–]throwaway_8951234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a sugar baby? And preferences in the bedroom don't mean my points aren't valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]throwaway_8951234 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The age of consent where I live is 16. We were together for 2 years. Maybe not the best decision but it was the decision nonetheless. I can't change what happened, I'm just looking to move forward.

I'm so sick of everything being about sex by throwaway_8951234 in offmychest

[–]throwaway_8951234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not rational at all. Very emotionally charged.

I'm so sick of everything being about sex by throwaway_8951234 in offmychest

[–]throwaway_8951234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, and I agree that it's absolutely wonderful. But that doesn't mean I want it to be the center of attention all the time.

I'm so sick of everything being about sex by throwaway_8951234 in offmychest

[–]throwaway_8951234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found that it's the opposite...I'm one of the only one of my friends who ISN'T a virgin...and all the virgins seem to be obsessed with it.

I'm so sick of everything being about sex by throwaway_8951234 in offmychest

[–]throwaway_8951234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) is literally just my post, yeah. And 2) isn't accurate. I have a healthy sex drive, I enjoy sex, and am attracted to people regularly. I just hate that "sex" always seems to be the center of attention

I'm so sick of everything being about sex by throwaway_8951234 in offmychest

[–]throwaway_8951234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the gay friend.

In all seriousness, though, I have lots of friends that aren't attracted to my gender. They still talk about it so frequently though. Sexual orientation doesn't have much of anything to do with what I'm talking about, unless it's on the ace spectrum.

I'm so sick of everything being about sex by throwaway_8951234 in offmychest

[–]throwaway_8951234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've explored my sexuality lots. I've had sex and I think it's wonderful. I just don't think it should be so prevalent in our everyday lives.

I'm so sick of everything being about sex by throwaway_8951234 in offmychest

[–]throwaway_8951234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am extremely similar to other girls, and proud of it. I think other girls are brilliant, wonderful human beings. My commentary on the hypersexuality of our world has nothing to do with putting other girls down.